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I am a girl of 19, I sometimes masturbate, ;/, I feel really awkward putting it up here, but it's better asking strangers then people close to me somehow? I always feel really bad and guilty after I masturbate because even though I am a girl I can get off to porn? It's stupid and gross, but I do? Any help?
| It's like that for me | 8 | |
| Um, no, your gross | 0 | |
| It doesn't for me | 5 | |
| Um. most of the time | 1 | |
| Don't know, just skipping through questions :) | 4 |
Who ever told you it was gross? or stupid?
Instead of worrying about what others your age think... try listing to your own body and your own desires instead. Give yourself permission to enjoy your own touch. Permission to let your body enjoy the treats you're giving yourself.
I was once there too, trying to balance my own needs with what others wanted me to think and feel... until I stopped caring.
I decided, fuck it I'm an adult. And if I want to treat my body then I have every right to do so. Be it with toys, or my own fingers. Or even my own mouth & tongue. Sometimes giving in is the best way to let go.
So, stop answering to others. Answer to your own body's call.
If you can't get off to porn try writings or pictures. There's a lot of bad porn out there but not all of it is gross. Do you do external masturbation before internal?
Yeah, but that feeling goes away after a while. You learn to accept yourself and know that it is a natural thing that most humans do all the time.
Yh. I feel the same way. It's because I learned about how it all works through the trafficing and people left no choice etc. And also how they are treated and how cut throat the business is. And when you look back at it in a non sexual veiw it is pretty terrible, I was also brought up with the mind set that, this stuff is wrong. So I always feel like there .a voice telling me to stop.
but that's y I have eventually learned to stop and I have reassured myself that i'm not alone and so many other people do it ,but there all undercover. Also the most people get into the business because they do genuinely enjoy it and it's there career choice.