Is it normal to feel guilty about cheating on your boyfriend when....

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is it normal to feel guilty about cheating on your boyfriend when he cheated on you 1OO times before. I really do love this kid but we went through alot and by alot i mean alot. we are both teens and have about 2 years together the thing is that when I first went out with him it was because I was depressed and had low self esteem. Please dont judge but my boyfriend is in a gang even though he does NOT smoke and does NOT do druggs and he is 19. The thing is I went out with him knowing that he was a player and never believed no one and really did not care. He did start hurting me alot and played me with alot of girls. I suffered alot but if i did break up with him he would go crazy. There was a time I was really going to leave him and he almost fought his uncle, mom and aunt and started crying and since that day he really has changed for the better. But anyways So there came a day when I did play him bad a few times with different people and until this day he does not know but this was last year. he has calmed down and for 5 months we been ok I guess even though I got this really really guilty conscious. He really does not think i cheated on him and thinks I am innocent. I really do love him alot but I always feel like I wont be able to be with him forever because his life is different from mine and our relationship has to many secrets. i have not done anything else since then because even if he does play me again regardless of the consequences I would leave him. Also he never had a relationship for more then 4 months with out having two girls and people did say i changed him alot and he doesnt get in trouble no more and pretty much quit all the gang stuff. any advice?? Am i a bad person....

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  • Lordsofdogtown
    12 years ago

    Why don't you just break up?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Meh normal. I've known many girls who cheat on their boyfriends and they have done the same. Yet they say they cannot live without them. Some people are just fucked up.

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    Dunno what's up with all these other people, your boyfriend seems like a well-adjusted citizen and a pretty swell gentleman.

    Just remember, he loves you with his fists!

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  • WillieFiasco
    12 years ago

    ............not cool. Cut all the games and drama and move on.

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  • yourmom2
    12 years ago

    NO WAIT. YOU ARE A ASS AND SHOULD ONLY FEEL BAD ABOUT BEING A TOTAL MORON> Hwy the hell did you date a guy who is in a gang you fucking moron. You deserve this and should have yourself beaten by him.

    What is wrong with you fucking American women?
    huh?

    You behave like two cent whores and then fell bad about your fucking mistake and come and sob all over the internet

    You stupid bitch get a life stop being a whore and go study and enjoy school rather than fuck like a loose whore and waste your life away.

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  • JD-795
    12 years ago

    Yes it's normal. From what I can tell your a kind person, and even though he cheated on you, you feel bad cause that's who you are. No matter what anyone does to you, you feel guilty doing it back cause you know how it feels.
    Don't worry stay strong!

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    • wigsplitz
      12 years ago

      That's a crap answer....what about having an ounce of fucking integrity, do the right thing no matter who's watching and no matter what someone has done to you?

      To OP: Oh, he cheated on me, so I cheated on him....how fucking dumb.

      What a stupid relationship, and stupid people....yeah, you two really sound like you're going far in life.....NOT.

      Go to school, get a life, forget this loser guy. What do you want, to get pregnant and live like a loser, with a loser for the rest of your life? There's a whole world out there that you have yet to experience. You're a teenager....dude, I can't even remember who my boyfriend was when I was 17, that's how little this guy is going to mean to you once you get away. Find someone worthwhile, get an education and do the right thing.

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    • Lavendar123
      12 years ago

      @JD-795 thanks for not being harsh like everyone else it means alot :)
      Too everyone else yeah maybe i shouldnt write on the internet but im sure you guys are perfect yourself everyone has flaws and feelings... Just saying

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