Is it normal to feel genderless and asexual?

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Hello there, man, starting out one of these is a lot harder than I expected...umm...let's just cut straight to the chase shall we.
I am someone who feels that they are asexual mentally, though isn't physically (Damn organs). I have felt this way nearly all my life and have been able to convince everybody I know that I am also that way physically (One of the few lies I've told), and I can't shake the feeling that I shouldn't think this way. I've always been under the impression that expression of who you are is the best way to live life (And it's been working well thus far), but I'm unsure of which is who I am, mentally being asexual or physically being heterosexual. I've also felt that I am genderless, even going to the point of preferring being referred to using androgynous pronouns (Seems Weird, I know). Are these things normal? Should I embrace sexuality or obey my mean organs?

Yes 17
No 6
Maybe So 1
I Dunno 5
Just The Asexuality 3
Just The Androgyny 1
Ducks, Quack! 8
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  • seekelp
    9 years ago

    Don't get caught up in trying to label yourself. There's more to a person than arbitrary classifications. If you don't want to date people, then don't.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Gender wise, you could be an Androgyne or you could be Agender.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Erm. How can you be a sexuality mentally but not physically?

    Elaboration would be best here. Explain how you feel mentally when it comes to sex and what you mean physically when you are "turned on" or whatever.

    As for the gender pronouns. How are you androgynous?

    I don't think any worthwhile comments can be made to give advice on this given the little information.

    I'm skpetical, as I always am. Too many people come on here claiming to be asexual which is just unrealistic given the statistic of asexuals and given you get a few claiming to be every week on here.

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    • JewBBQ1942
      9 years ago

      I feel you man. I myself am asexual (Understandable to not believe me, your choice), and it sickens me to see so many people pretend to be one. I can't understand why they do it though, maybe because there are so little asexuals?

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