Is it normal to feel gay

Im gonna need a little more information then that bro.

It's incredibly normal to feel love and affection for friends of the same gender. It's also really normal for people who are otherwise straight to find a man attractive or otherwise gay to find a woman attractive. Sometimes you can be attracted to someone for more than their gender and that's okay and normal too.

I don't know anything about you or your attractions, but most people fall somewhere in the middle of the Kinsey Scale, whether they want to admit it or not. SO don't be hard on yourself! It's normal, healthy, and your feelings are a beautiful thing!!

I don't want to be gay I want the female way and I believe as a Christian

It is normal and okay to be gay, but with a friend it may get a little more complicated. Do not pursue him if you think he might not share the same feelings, it could potentially ruin the friendship, but that depends on how good of friends you really are. Be careful.

Spend more time with girls?

I dunno.

Be careful. Is it really your personality, or is there something which wants to seduce you?
If you have the chance - and to me it seems you have it - I'd go for the complementary half of us guys' world: the female half. (Adam had an Eve, not a Steve.) It is so much harder to give such an advice if, unlike you, someone is determined the other way and still asks (hoping to find confirmation). If I were you, I'd keep my ears and eyes open for the female world, it'll make you rich. Guys and girls fit together, and not only in the middle.
I think a gay experience could easily be something you may deeply regret - possibly much later. I'd examine if it is really YOU or something external which wants to take control over your desires.

Practically, seek girls' company, and ask yourself if their way of moving, of looking, of laughing does not have a wide-spread effect also on you.

There's many different types of attraction, involving sexual and romantic aspects and their combinations.

Maybe you're romantically attracted to your friend, but not sexually?

You could also be experiencing what is called a "squish," which I found an excellent definition of here: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=squish

All of that is very well possible, but I can't speak for you. You have to decide that for yourself.

One thing I would say is that historically in western culture (and in most other places too) men were far more physically affectionate with each without it being considered homosexual. A hundred years ago men hugging and holding hands was not considered the least bit unusual. If you go back further than that say 500 years men kissing open lipped on the street was not considered to be a sign of homosexuality, as crazy as that seems to us today.

I am just saying that your desires may in fact be more of the natural way men were together that modern society has now relatively recently deemed unacceptable. Or it could be a sign that you are latently homosexual or bisexual. Only you can work that out.

There is nothing wrong with being gay, I am just saying that affection between males has been deemed inappropriate by society today but if you go back historically things were very different and it is likely that those historical conceptions represent the more natural behaviours of humanity.

Ok thanks for advice

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You can;t feel gay you retard, you are gay, or you're not, and if you're into both guys ad girls, you're bisexual. It's not that hard.