Is it normal to feel funny about my boyfriend and this girl from work?

Basically my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years has recently become friends with a girl from his work. They constantly text each other, talk online and on the phone. Sometimes she can spend hours crying down the phone to him and coming to him about her problems in life when they have only been friends a little while. Is it normal that I feel about funny about this? Like doesnt she have any of her own friends? Cant she go cry to them?

Whenever i bring it up with my boyfriend he tells me im just being paranoid and it shouldnt bother me but i cant help it!

Am i being paranoid? Or is my boyfriend being out of order?

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  • sleepygirl101

    Not paranoid...look through his phone and figure out what they talk about, maybe confront the girl about it.

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  • Sabaky

    Well i think you and the friend should talk because they are prone to tell you the truth:)

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  • wreckd

    You're not being paranoid. My husband's co-worker did the same thing! I kept telling him she was after him but he told me I was paranoid too. A couple months later she was bending over in front of him, asking him to hang out, and finally confessed her affection to him. Needless to say, he told her he wasn't interested and to get lost. They still work together but he can't stand her anymore. HA!

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  • helpmeonly

    let your boyfriend know you truly love him but you think he is being unfaithful,and if he truly loves you at all he will put your needs before some girl and stop talking to her. i run into this problem with my gf all the time,and her "gay best friend",she flirts with other guys shows her body,and adds them on skype,plus worst part is when she lies. I know i should leave her but i have tried 20 times and i cant cause i have never loved or felt for another human before. Add her as a friend if necessary and see if it bothers your bf,and try to steal her away from him,if he continues.

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  • xoxochick

    Your are definitely not being paranoid you should investigate.

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  • blondbond69

    He's into her. Probably getting close to cheating with her honestly.

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  • You have every right to be paranoid , I agree with all the other posts that say you need to talk to him and straighten him out with this , I guarentee he wouldn't like it if you were all close and friendly with one of your male co-workers !

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  • cass

    you are NOT being paranoid. dont let him give you that line.
    same thing happened to me and my boyfriend of 3 years, he ended up cheating on me with her.
    this girl is showing no respect for your relationship with your boyfriend and is weasling her way in. its very wrong of your boyfriend to do this to you, can lead to so many other problems. tell him to straighten the fuck up.

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  • 8Serene8

    That's very out of line of him to do. First of all it's a chick and he shouldn't be giving his number to other women in the first place. He is in a relationship with you and if he respects and loves you he will delete her number and stop texting and calling her immediately. If he keeps it up leave him because it will only get worse

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    • blondbond69

      Yess

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  • CountryRoads

    I just don't find this to be a big deal. Unless you have good reason not to trust him, shouldn't you give him the benefit of the doubt...?

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  • thegift

    I bet they are still "Sexting"

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  • Stephanie_87

    He may be a wonderful person making you one of the lucky few.

    Then again, he may be trying to get in her pants.

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