Is it normal to feel frustrated with someone for not talking much to u

Sometimes I like my mother's fiancee and sometimes I don't. There are a few reasons why I don't really like him. He never carries a steady conversation with me or even makes the effort to start up a conversation with me. I feel like I'm always the one trying to make conversation with him. I'm at the point where I kind of hate him because I feel that he has nothing much to say to me and I don't like phony people. In the past we haven't had such a great relationship. He's cheated on my mom in the past and has lied to her. He's also laughed at my expense when my mom told me maybe I was doing something wrong with the ladies when I was telling her about my troubles with women. I was furious that night. In January 2010 he tried to talk to me but I was too angry to talk and I ended up punching him in his face when he egged me on saying that I think I'm so big and bad. This was like waving a red flag at a bull and I reacted. He punched me back and I lunged towards him but he held me down on the bed like a pussy. He said "you can say whatever you want to me but don't act like this towards your mother" because I had yelled at her since I was upset. I felt like she embarrassed me. Why would she say something like that to me in front of him? Anyway I had a black eye and he had a bloodshot eye. My mother had asked what happened when she came out the room. I heard him laughing in the living room. I really hated him for that.

Anyway we had made up in March when I came home for Spring Break. Things were going well until Summer 2010 when I returned from college feeling down in the dumps. My college experience had gone awry and I was struggling with my major. I felt like a complete loser and I didn't know what my next step would be. I also was feeling like a loser because I had no luck with the ladies at my college. I began to get really depressed to the point where I didn't want to do anything. I felt that my mother's fiancee wasn't there for me and I was hurt by this. He was working a lot and didn't spend much time doing any male bonding with me. Things got worse when I found out he was cheating on my mother in January 2011. I went to go hit him and he pinned me down once again. Despite the fact that he cheated on my mom, my mom took his sorry ass back. I was pissed at this. Anyway we eventually started talking again August 2011. My mother is marrying him this August and sometimes I feel that she might be making a mistake. I'm not going to say anything to her because I want her to be happy but if he was fucked up in the past to her what makes her think he won't be after they are married? I think of the past and sometimes I hate him for it. Is this normal? Is it also normal to hate him for not starting up a convo with me or saying that much to me? I feel like he is phony!!! HELP.