Is it normal to feel for this girl?

So, I love a girl who is 1 years & 8 months older than me, she is the daughter of my mom's friend, we've been together right from our birth. We share everything between ourselves. She used to call me her li'l bro which irritated me. From 4 years ago, I started to develop attraction towards her, presently I'm in such a situation, I just cannot think anything except her. I started to love her with all my heart but afraid to tell her. What should I do?

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  • Shackleford96

    Tell her now dammit, life is too short!

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  • ccjigsaw

    Sounds romantic lol That would make a great story! (Lover of romance) Maybe there will be a happy ending? You'll grow up to be a great man and she won't be able to see you as a little bro anymore. ~w~ I would read that lol

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Ask her how she feels about you.
    So many people end up alone because they lack the nerve to tell someone how they feel. The woman feels like the man has to do it and the man feels like the woman should make her feelings extremely obvious. It's all stupid horse-shit.

    Try being direct.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Don't tell her how you feel unless you know for sure she feels the same back.

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    • IntelCore

      agree, I was also thinking the same. How can I understand if she also feels the same?

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      • ccjigsaw

        There are things you an do to test her, or even direct her thoughts towards you and turn the tables. A girl who likes a guy romantically will react much differently to something simple like holding her hand apposed to someone she just sees as a friend. If you guys are comfortable watching movies together, how would she react to you say, leaning your head on her shoulde?. If you guys aren't comfortable doing that, then invite her over to watch a movie! lol Doing little things and gauging her reactions might help you figure things out

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      • Terence_the_viking

        If she does look out for the subtle hints. I can't give you examples because i don't know the person.

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