Is it normal to feel empty after sex?

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I have meaningless hookups here and there and I may have regretted some of them but I've never felt bad or sad after them. But last night I had sex with a guy that I'm getting to know better, who I care about and who cares about me, but ironically after having sex with him I have a deep emptiness feeling. I completely regret everything with him. I guess it's because since he means something to me I expected something with love, unlike with random guys, and what happened last night was pure horniness. Has it happened to anyone of you and is there anything at all I can do to take this weird feeling off me? I guess I could talk to him and explain that I don't want to have any more sex with him but idk...

Yes, I have felt this way 6
I haven't felt this way but it is normal 3
No, it is not normal 0
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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    Just say that. Tell him you want to slow down a bit.

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  • misca
    10 years ago

    I feel empty both physically and mentally. ;)

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  • thecowboy911
    10 years ago

    Yeah it only happens when i sleep with a girl i developed feelings for. I keep wondering if she has feelings for me and whenever i see her acting horny towards me i suspect all she wants is sex and i begin feeling depressed.

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