Is it normal to feel disgusted by my father

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My father is a total jerk, and i hate him so much that i wana run away from my house and never see his face again but i love my mom alot and never wana leave her with that crazy man. My dad screams all the time he earns so much money but never ever give enough to my mom so that she could go shop for once in her life. My mom got bloodpressure and i hold my dad responsible for that. Hes always in a bad mood and never lets me do anything i want. Sometimes he doesnt even let me go out with my friends. And he is so ugly and disgusting he embaresses me infront of my friend all the time. I hate him so much!!!

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Based on 38 votes (33 yes)
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  • grahamsgirl
    13 years ago

    maybe you should be thankful you have a father. maybe your mom should go out and find a job and make her own money and shop for herself. shopping isnt important by the way. how old are you? sounds like you are a frustrated kid. so what if he doesnt let you go out with your friends. you probably deserved it. from what you wrote here you have nothing to bitch about except maybe the bloodpressure. and she probably didnt even get it from him. a lot of different factors come into play when it comes to high blood pressure like excercise...diet...genes yadda yadda. just breathe child.

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    • cerberus
      12 years ago

      I agree.
      My mom sounds a lot like your dad, she drives me absolutely insane. I hate her so much sometimes, and like you said she just disgusts me after all these years of psychological abuse. I loved my dad to death, he was the best friend and parent I could have ever had. My dad died 3 years ago and I have to deal with my crazy bitchy mom on my own. I think you should take one day at a time no matter how much he upsets you, and just tell yourself that dealing with it is to make you stronger as a person in the end. You won't have to live with him forever, and even though it may take awhile to get out of that situation, have faith that you can make it through.

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  • LeinaBxtchh
    13 years ago

    i hate my dad too!
    and my mom.
    and like my whole family.
    but at least i have friends so its not that hard!<3

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    He sounds just like my dad. Luckily he doesn't live with me and my mum anymore XD. Just be patient maybe your mum will realise what an idiot he's being? Then again he is your dad and maybe he's just totally stressed and he'll loosen up a bit :) Good luck just be patient! x

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  • Shnaz
    10 years ago

    He might need to have an "accident"

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  • gako
    13 years ago

    Your dad is such a jerk!

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  • psychobabble
    13 years ago

    Try to keep it together as much as possible for your mom. Have you told her how you feel?

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    • gothic13
      13 years ago

      no i havnt told my mom about how i feel she going to say that i think very negitivly i have no idea how my mom has managed him for more then 20 years if i was in her place i would have been in jail for killing my own husband. And because most of the time i stay at home i have to listen to the same arguments, conversations and shooting and screaming its making me sick. Im just stuck in this dump.

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      • gothic13
        13 years ago

        sorry i ment to write shouting not shooting!!!

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  • --ash--
    13 years ago

    I think if you had sex with him things would change!

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    • unique-nobody
      13 years ago

      @ --ash--

      What the hell is wrong with you?

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