Is it normal to feel digusted in a relationship after awhile?

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So this has happened to me multiple times, i am involved with a guy and after we date for a ahilé i start feeling weird and disgusted at him and i end up breaking up with him. At first I thought that it was because it was my first relationship and I was just afraid but when it happened again and again I started wondering if I was a lesbian but i have never been attracted to girls. Then I thought that maybe I had never liked those guys. I am very confused please help me understand.

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  • Violet_X
    12 years ago

    So are you, Spanky2011.

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  • Violet_X
    12 years ago

    You're DEFINITELY a lesbian.

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    • jerqler
      12 years ago

      No, she's asexual =P

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  • Spanky2011
    13 years ago

    Not sure if it's normal but I get that too. With my first bf it took about six months. My second, it was a year or two. Now, I'm married and with him it took about 5 years but by then I was pregnant so, what to do!?!

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  • thinchameleon
    13 years ago

    Oh my gosh. I do this all the time. Even just recently I was with thus guy I had liked for six years. Six months into the relationship I broke up with him. I think it's something to do with envying our past selves freedom in terms of being single. Another thing I realised is that he just mightn't have been right for me. And the weird thing is I've done this three times now and I miss every single one of them. But I know there must be someone better for me out there because I know i don't want to be with any of them.

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  • Briansou
    13 years ago

    You are gonna be fine. You just need to get to know what love is.

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  • nymphie
    13 years ago

    That's happened to me. I don't know, maybe you just haunt found someone you really like yet. Or maybe you are a lesbian but havnt felt any attraction so far. You're probably more interested in getting the guy than the actual dating.

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