Is it normal to feel cynical?

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I feel cynical about people in general. I understand that most people are not out there to get at me or exploit my shortcomings but I have an innate distaste for others in general, not necessarily out of spite, just apathy. I don't want to go through life alone, but I find it difficult to keep friendships or make friends. I can talk to people relatively easily, however I never notice anything hitting off. Actually, this only applies to people within my age range, (I am 18, so 18-24 I suppose). I can talk to 'adults' absolutely fine, but my own generation is more or less of a disappointment. I am too sensitive perhaps, but I am always alone and this more or less does not really bother me, I just do not want to live life forever this way. Is it normal?

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  • loyally
    13 years ago

    You'll find people you have more in common with, and when you do hit it off don't end the friendship.

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  • PoisonFlowers
    13 years ago

    Yes, I often feel this way. It's easy to feel cynical about people. Many people aren't out to get you, but the capacity to be cruel is in many.

    I hardly ever exchange words with someone who is on my wavelength. I can talk with people, but the words just feel empty to me. So, I know what you mean about feeling a general distaste for people.

    What Loyally said is right - as soon as you find people you have more in common with, don't let them slip away :P And don't let first impressions be the be-all and end-all because often our perceptions of others can change in a heartbeat.

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  • sqwidword33
    13 years ago

    when you chase something, it usually runs from you. admire anything that isn't being chased, and never chase what you admire.

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  • mut8ed1
    13 years ago

    My only real friend is someone who shares my belief that IQ takes a nosedive between ages 12-26. I can't stand the company of my "peers".

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