Is it normal to feel crazy like this?

My girlfriend of 2 years and I have split about a month ago. We've been on and off about three times since dating mostly because of my inability to be compassionate and caring, but we usually end up back together. However, this time's different. I hurt every day since we split and I see how poorly I really did treat her and how often I expressed an overall lack of affection towards her. She's since had a purely sexual relation ship with someone 10 years older than her with a fetish crazed sexual deviant, and kissed her tattoo artist and it makes me absolutely blind with rage and jealousy. I don't blame her for looking for happiness but I feel so hurt by these findings. But at the same time I feel like I'm doing her justice by allowing myself to be hurt like I hurt her... This cannot be normal, can it? Is

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Based on 36 votes (33 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • Darkoil

    Just become a wild fuck monkey and go swinging in the trees.

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  • TheFascade

    The "Is" at the end isn't supposed to be there.

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  • k1d

    One mans trash is another mans treasure. What u wont do another man will.

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  • live you life

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  • TheFascade

    Should I try to fix it, or just let her go? I feel like I can't be mad at her for looking for happiness (albeit in the wrong places). I'm afraid that I'll hurt her again...

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    • I say try and work it out

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  • Dozis

    Yeah,you are definitely not supposed to be in this world.

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  • Been there, normal. jealousy is a bitch, go get your girl!

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  • joybird

    Maybe you should write to her and apologise saying that you recognise your selfishness. This might make you feel better and hopefully you'll learn from your past mistakes and treat the next girl better.

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  • Wow she sounds like something I would distance myself from after finding all that out... It would hurt now but nothing time can't heal... Just my opinion though

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  • SoccerStud88

    you sound jealous. thats normal.

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  • sounds normal yr jealous and that is what she felt, youll meet someone else

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