Is it normal to feel crazy after talking to your ex?

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Ok, so a guy did just break my heart, so sorry I'm ignoring the instructions. but that's beside the point. He lies. at least... I'm pretty sure he does.

I've had two girls tell me he's kissed them while he was kissing on me (once was after we broke up, but he was trying to get back together with me) Anyway, every time we have a conversation about it he tells me I'm crazy and its all in my head

I don't want a relationship where I don't trust my guy, so I'm not getting back together with him. (finally decided that after a year of misery) But I still wonder... was he right and I'm the crazy one? Is it normal to feel like this?

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  • stealinsugars
    13 years ago

    If he can make you think that you're crazy then he gets off easy. There are a lot of people who use this type of defense when confronted with bad behavior. If they can turn the attention away from theselves and back onto you by making you feel like you are crazy or that you did something wrong, then they can wiggle out of having to own up to their deceitful ways. Don't buy into it. You are better off cutting your losses with this jackass.

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  • wearethecast
    12 years ago

    you're not crazy. in relationships where you have suspicions it's easy to let things get to your head. He was probably saying that to get to you and to protect himself. The only thing I'd say you need to work on with future boyfriends is to not get so jealous and ask him softly about the subject, if he gets angry and yells "I can't believe you would think I would do that!" then he probably cheated, if he gets sad and apologizes for making you think that but swears up and down he didn't, he's golden and you should keep him around (:

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    maybe he is right, but that doesn't make you crazy. if you don't feel you can trust him, then you just can't. because you will never know if he lied, or the other girl lied.

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