Is it normal to feel crap about small breasts

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Hi, im a 32 year old women with a problem with the size of my breasts. things are just going from bad to worse. I have recently had my second child, before pregnancy was a size 8 and a 32A cup. I had all the confidence i could have, and even though i wore padded bras would wear all the high street tops and enjoy a night out. During my pregnancy and 3 months breastfeeding i went up to a 34C cup which both me and my partner enjoyed. now the baby is 7 months and i have shrunk to a 34AA and a size 12 one breast is slightly smaller than the other also. I will no longer be naked in front of my partner, sex is a problem as i have lost so much confidence that i no longer feel attractive or even much of a women. I cant stand him to watch the tv if a sex scence comes on or if there are busty women and if i cuddle him i think i shouldnt be able to get that close to him but i can because im so flat chested. certain clothes makes me feel like a transvestite as i look so manly up top.im pushing him away, even though he knows my issues it must be hard for him to be so rejected but i cant help myself ...what can i do???

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  • 343Boy
    13 years ago

    Just remember women aren't breasts, I'm sure there are other features your partner is attracted to, why don't you try directing attention towards those? If your partner was with you before your breasts were enlarged from the pregnancy, then certainly he wasn't only attracted to your breasts.

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  • Bitcomet
    14 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with smaller breasts. I really dont understand why people get so worked up about them. The only reason they're there is for milk! nothing else. Please don't even consider getting them surgically enhanced...Natural is better. =) xx

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  • laurenap
    14 years ago

    I have small breasts (32A) and I love them. it means guys don't stare at my chest, i can go braless in almost anything, my back never hurts, they will be perky longer than bigger ones, and they don't hit my nose when i run/jump (trust me, i know someone's whose breasts hit her face when she ran!)

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  • zxy
    13 years ago

    Thats what you get for getting pregnant.

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    • AchingKibb1es3
      8 years ago

      Urban mean

      But it is true

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      • AchingKibb1es3
        8 years ago

        Ur mean

        Stoopid auto correct

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  • tori
    14 years ago

    I have the opposite problem. I'm a 38DD. And they are natural. I don't wear button shirts because of the buttons strain or pop open. I've considered a reduction but it scares me to think they have to rearrange your nipples. I have a breast that is smaller than the other also. Most women do. I am 54 years old and had to live during the Twiggy era. It was awful. I used to get teased about running, walking fast, horse back riding. To this day I hate to run because I let other people dictate how I should feel. Love your breasts and yourself.

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  • sherry
    13 years ago

    I hate big boobs!

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    • daydreamer394
      9 years ago

      My big boobs hate you.

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      • CDmale4fem
        1 year ago

        I just LOOOOOOVVEEE BIG BOOBS. There is so much there to play with and lick and suck on. Especially cuz I like to titty fuck her then I cum all over her breast and then I lick them clean.

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  • dwe
    14 years ago

    If it really bothers you then don't waste another day, take action. Life is too short. Get these pills called Bloussant - they worked for one of my girlfriends - she went up a whole cup size - just by taking these pills!!!! I was amazed, and delighted. :)

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  • Boronx
    14 years ago

    Get a boob job or get pregnant again. Otherwise, man up and accept who you are.

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  • thecowboy911
    10 years ago

    Lol my ex had small breasts but had a big booty ( worked out regularly in the gym ) and trust me when i say small boobs isnt an issue for the majority of guys. Guys will be more attracted to confidence , seductivness and sure a sexy booty

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  • purpleflower
    10 years ago

    I love small breasts! They never sag XD
    And you can go braless anytime you want!
    Big breasts get in the way sometimes...

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  • helice
    12 years ago

    While it is normal to experience some form of self-hatred about one's body, you should probably consider what factors led you to believe that smaller breasts are inferior.

    Breast size does not factor in to 'how much of a woman' you are. Gender is simply a serious of actions that are performed, whether consciously or not.

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  • original
    13 years ago

    I see nothing went with small breast besides smaller is better for ur spine

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  • Pee-Drinker
    13 years ago

    Didn't he marry you with small breasts? The fact that he liked them when they were bigger is because they were full of milk not that they were bigger.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Stop dumping on yourself, maybe? Talk to your husband - I doubt he feels any less attracted t you.

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  • mardybum
    14 years ago

    If it makes you feel better, I am a 34B and for awhile now I have wanted to get a breast reduction to an A cup. Smaller breasts are sexier and they look better with high fashion clothing...just check out all of the runway models! Also, two words: Keira Knightley

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    • ReaperAJ
      14 years ago

      Good reply. I am small breasted and I think it looks tidier and it's much more comfortable. I couldn't imagine having huge knockers hanging off my chest every moment of my life.

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    • Schythl
      14 years ago

      Eww, Keira Knightley...

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  • ReaperAJ
    14 years ago

    almost all women have issues with their breasts, large and small. Breasts are never perfect unless they have been augmented. Even what you perceive to be a beautiful pair of natural breasts will have their defects. In most cases one is smaller than the other, or hangs lower, or the nipples are lopsided. What you need to do is accept yourself as you are. I know that is easier said than done, but you can get help from a counselor to work through the problem because it seems to be quite bad considering you are punishing your partner for your own insecurity. Although he enjoyed the bigger size with you, I'm sure he still loves you just as much and finds you just as sexy. Breasts are not everything and bigger one's hit the ground eventually, so in a way be glad yours are smaller, less chance of them drooping. My sister in law has big knockers and she really suffers with backache and can't get tops to fit nicely. Your other option is breast augmentation, which is costly, and besides, you're going to have to sort your mind out first, because most reputable surgeons recognise that even augmentation won't solve the issue sometimes. Stop hating yourself on account of your boobs. I'm sure you're lovely just as you are.

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  • finniculi
    14 years ago

    I feel so bad for you =(

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  • Cybil
    14 years ago

    I feel bad about my breasts sometimes too. I think they are too big. But then again big breats and thin frames run in my family and remember they attract men. Thinking of that boosts my self esteem. So the moral of this story is no matter if they are big or small you are still going to worry about them.

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