Is it normal to feel conflicted about your sexuality?

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I’m 30 years old and conflicted with my sexuality. I’m having a hard time accepting that I’m gay because that’s not what I really want even though I have a sexual attraction to men. When watching straight porn I would feel aroused by the men in the videos particularly if the man had a nice physique. While watching porn I was entranced by attributes such as a
muscular ass or strong back muscles. Can one be aroused by men and not be gay? In my mind I’m having a war which centers around the
question of whether I should act on my sexual feelings to men. I need some advice. What do I do? I have no peace. Do I just accept that I’m
gay or should I just carry on talking to women in hopes that the thoughts will dissipate?

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  • KholatKhult
    3 years ago

    Okay. This is post number #87 from you bro

    I’ve never wanted someone to just go suck a dick this much in my life but you need to go sleep with a man so I don’t have to read this again

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    • Mammal-lover
      3 years ago

      Maybe send him a dick pic haha

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      • KholatKhult
        3 years ago

        Well I have always been a team player
        Anything for the community

        It’s settled OP I’ll fuck you

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    3 years ago

    Secretly meet up with a guy and dont tell anyone. Bam you're good. It never happened if no one knows. Also say no homo afterwards.

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  • Ditnyte
    3 years ago

    Definitely get with a guy, you seem to need to bad. Repressing it doesn’t do much and you are better off just enjoying yourself. If you also like women you cloud be bi, but you seem like you really need to be with a guy

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  • bigbudchonga
    3 years ago

    Are you attracted to women too, or not? If you're so desperate not to be gay, and you're attracted to women, you can get round it; if not you're going to have to face it, or live a repressed celibate life.

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  • --
    3 years ago

    No its not normal. Most people are straight, know they are straight and are happy being attracted to the opposite sex.

    What should you do? I don't know, but if I was attracted to men I would keep that shit hidden and never tell anyone. I would have a secret hidden file on my computer that would have all my sick man on man porn in, I would not date or have any relationships, If I really had to I would visit another town and hire a man hooker... Look idk. I couldn't imagine being gay, I think it is disgusting. I don't hate poofs, and ill treat em like anyone else but the whole donkey root thing just isn't for me.

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  • my_life_my_way
    3 years ago

    Just go and fuck some men, you’ll eventually make peace with your sexuality. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, it’s just who you are

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