Is it normal to feel conflicted about your sexuality?
I’m 30 years old and conflicted with my sexuality. I’m having a hard time accepting that I’m gay because that’s not what I really want even though I have a sexual attraction to men. When watching straight porn I would feel aroused by the men in the videos particularly if the man had a nice physique. While watching porn I was entranced by attributes such as a
muscular ass or strong back muscles. Can one be aroused by men and not be gay? In my mind I’m having a war which centers around the
question of whether I should act on my sexual feelings to men. I need some advice. What do I do? I have no peace. Do I just accept that I’m
gay or should I just carry on talking to women in hopes that the thoughts will dissipate?