Is it normal to feel conflicted about gay marriage?

What is to be conflicted about? What grown adults do with their personal lives is none of anybody's damn business.

Being gay is unnatural? Nope. Homosexuality is found in many different species apart from humans and sometimes play a vital role in the mating process even.

Biologically a dead end? Not really. A trait need not lead to reproduction to continue on genetically. As a society, much of the time we have too many children to take care of as it is and so the influx of more potential parents without reproductive capabilities would actually be advantageous.

Besides all that, what is the problem if something is unnatural or biologically a dead end? Nearly everything the human race does is unnatural to some extent and if something is biologically a dead end that would just mean that we wouldn't have the problem soon enough anyways.

Being gay does't turn off your reproductive organs. And plenty of straight couples are infertile. So biology doesn't work as an argument for me. It just means monogamy won't create offspring.

homosexuality is necessary for population control. We have enough people having kids already, I don't think its unnatual that %2 of the population are gay and won't have kids.
Also you can find homosexuality in any species of animal.
However I don't understand what the big deal of marriage is or why anyone would ever want to get married gay or not.

Glasses are unnatural.
People who wear glasses shouldn't marry.

Menopausal women cannot reproduce.
Menopausal women shouldn't marry.

I dislike the argument of it being unnatural. The way you argue, it seems like the continued existence of the human species is objectively good and important, and since something, unnaturally, goes against keeping the human species on this planet, then it is bad.

I view things differently, I don't think it is objectively important that humanity continues to be here for a number of generations in the future. We are here now, and while we're here, it would be fine if gays could be married like everybody else.

I could also say that communicating over the internet is unnatural.

Being gay does not only happen to humans.

Gays have been around forever, unfortunately they have had to hide themselves for fear of persecution...even now it's still not as welcoming as I hope one day it can be....so being gay will never be the 'norm'. Never has been, never will. There will always be heterosexuals to carry on the human race, we are already over populated, so don't worry about that. With that being said, my opinion is no, no it is not normal. I don't understand the debate. Two people love eachother, they sgould have the right to make that commitment. But it does piss me off they get tax deductions, they as in married people in general. Like wtf, not fair haha. Seriously though, life is too short, it's hard enough controlling your own life, so why bother trying to control someone elses? There are so many heterosexuals that can't even make those vows and stick to them, so if the gay people love eachother enough to want to make those vows and take them seriously, why should anyone get in the way of that? Peace, love, equality, man!

I dislike the fact that gays try to overly express it and there are parades etc for gays when there isn't really anything celebrating large groups of people who are married.

Hell I say let them get married and deal with all the bullshit a man and woman go through. Don't forget about prenups and alimony and everything else that comes with divorce like every marriage that ends entails.

I support only the second half of your argument.
"If being gay was the norm, then humanity would've died off long ago."
There's no need to make provision for those that choose to do things the wrong way.

As a christian i don't support people being gay! BUT it is not up to us to judge gay people or non Christians it is gods job (it says this in the bible). Leave gay people alone they are human beings and part of the human population they deserve to have their rights.

It is however our job to live our lives in gods ways (if you call yourselves christian) by: following gods commandments and showing the fruit of the spirit; charity, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, generosity, gentleness, faithfulness, modesty, self-control, chastity.

Living in concrete/brick houses is not normal either, Neither is the internet, neither is using an oven, neither is asking permission to have sex, Neither is being a vegetarian, neither is making friends with creature we could be eating, Neither is weapons of mass destruction.

im gay nd uve hurt my feelings- ive adopted plus anyway it is the norm as we r genetically born like it

Being gay may not be the norm, but IT IS NATURAL. Homosexuality occurs in over 500 species, including birds, mammals, insects, reptiles, even fishes. It occurs in every human culture, in every place and every time; just there are cultures/religions which condemn it and others which embrace or are indifferent to it. By the way, while homosexuality is so widespread in the animal kingdom, homophoby occurs in just one species, Homo sapiens. Just go study some biology and genetics before saying something is or is not natural.

"If being gay was the norm, then humanity would've died off long ago." That's bullshit!

1. Being gay is not the norm and it will never be. I don't even see how this is a point against gay marriage? It's just a "what if..."-case.

2. Gay people are as fertile as straight people are, so they could make children easily. I think, even a completely gay society wouldn't be an "evolutionary dead end".