Is it normal to feel burdened in a relationship?

Almost every relationship after, my first few, I just want out. I almost feel bored and burdened. I wanna be free but I still wanna have her there by my side to hold!!! I love that!!! Any idea?

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77% Normal
Based on 31 votes (24 yes)
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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    How old are you?
    You may not be old enough to handle and maintain a serious relationship just yet.

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  • NothingxCrazy

    I actually used to get like this in relationships. Part of me still hates being held down but I can usually function fairly well without freaking out even in my head.
    Not sure what you can do. Maybe she's just not the one but you dislike being alone. I'm sure you'll find someone that you are able to get over these feelings for.

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  • Koda

    Even though I completely empathize, I had to vote "no". Most people aren't commitment-phobic like you and I. It's just something we'll have to deal with. For me, it's not only relationships, but jobs too. I tend to quit as soon as I feel "trapped" in any situation. It's rather irrational, but that's a phobia for you.

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