Is it normal to feel bi every few years??

Hiya,

So I’ve had a good few crushes on both sexes, a couple have been ongoing for years. All of them have been very strange choices and unavailable for various reasons -- they're usually musicians. My disability would make sex (any type) impossible, so I’m just not interested in it, but if said choices offered I'd say yes.

I find a lot of women (or maybe it's just the ones I meet) quite boring because they don't tend to share my interests whereas men do. I love hearing women perform men's songs and there's one that I really like sung in a gravelly voice.

When I was praising one of these female singers to the hills post-gig an acquaintance started making some very lurid comments about her & I (by her I mean the singer, not who I was talking to) and I was quite shocked, but then I thought she must be half-right or I wouldn't have had the reaction I did. I am really confused. Any ideas??

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  • m.a.s97

    This made absolutely no sense.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Alright I understand what you mean. If your disability does not let you have sex you probobly still desire sex. However you know you cant have it so you ignore your urges. You probobly have a lot of pent us sexual frustration and don't realize this. So anyone is probobly going to look good since your not sure as you never been with someone before. So I think you are unsure of your sexuality and at this point just desperate for a release. Also enjoying someones company is not the same as wanting to sleep with them. Also liking someones singing has nothing to do with being sexually attracted to them. If you like the music you like the music it does not equal sexual attraction. I do hope this helped you.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I'm confused just having to read this... Maybe, I'm to sedated for this.

    Sexuality wise, you might be bisexual.
    Music wise, it's okay to like/praise singers of The same sex.

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