Is it normal to feel bad when cheated even though you've cheated?

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Title says it all, I just found out my girlfriend just cheated on me, she met this guy a while ago and back then I found out she was chatting with him in an "inappropriate" way, they saw each other through webcam and everything. A certain time passed and I learned he was back in the picture, this time they went and had sex for real and I feel devastated, but I most probably deserve this because I've cheated on her, purely one night stands, with different people and of course that doesn't make it better, so is it normal to still feel this devastated? To still feel appalled when I'm no better?

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  • equanimity
    12 years ago

    You should be devastated. You had a good thing, you fucked it up by cheating, and then, when someone else gives her the lovin' you should have been giving her all alone, you're sad.

    Too bad for you. Did you learn your lesson?

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  • Summerlove87
    11 years ago

    Getting a taste of your own medicine...

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    12 years ago

    of course thats normal. id think youd be monster if u didnt actually.

    so now u know how it feels >.>
    brace it, eat it all up. and remember what u did.

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