Is it normal to feel awkward and guilty when taking a girl to bed?

I love shy girls, but I think I know what you mean. You think she's all sunshine & cotton candy & sweet but you feel guilty cause you wanna bend her over & stick your face in her crack. Is that it?

yea dave is kinda right ... and for the other guys - i havent asked for your opinion on how old i should begin having sex , 2ndly for all the MACHOS just asking how many girls have you slept with when you have "the balls"? not being an asshole doesnt make you gay , just the opposite actually you should try sometimes , maybe it will help you in your love/sex life. feeling sorry for u really :(

aww you sound like a sweet heart deep down, most guys don't care how much they defile a girl but this is really sweet, your gf's are lucky.
Is Dave right btw? he must be kinda close...

I feel kinda the same way man I think its normal, your just not a douche, you care about her.

Yeah man i understand it feels as though they don't really want to have sex, and cant even be bothered to put the effort in to undress or atleast help you. It depends a lot on her confidence though some women would be fine with stiping down without you, but a lot are ashamed or worried about how thier body looks. So they will have a hard time taking thier cloths off and let you do it instead.

Yeah, its normal. You're probably both too shy. If she's letting you do it and isnt completely stiff, means she wants you to go ahead.

aww you're so cute!! >u<

Charley ur number please lol

yeah hate the playing "shy" girls too. Like women that know what they want much better.

you should go with me I would undress myself for you ;) and you, it would be goooooood ;) x

Dude your 18. You shouldn't be taking girls over to your bed in the first place. Lol I mean Let alone under your parents roof. Take your mind out of the gutter and read a book instead.

maybe u shood go with a guy so he can undress you and you dont hvae to feel so guilty

If you have read Catcher in the Rye you would see that in some ways you are caught between two seemingly paradoxical choices in the process of growing up and losing your innocence. On the one hand, as ashamed as we all might be to admit it, the animal part of you lusts after her body, uncaring about the person. That part of you i still developing. Then there is your emotional and intelligent side that cares for her romantically. Right now you torn between the two choices: "Do I desire her body for my own pleasure? Or do I love her in the purest and deepest way? How can I love a girl perfectly and at the same time desire to use her as a sex object? "It seems like the love to some extent is contaminated by your lusty thoughts. Part of becoming an adult is to realize you don't have to make either choice but both by seeing sex as a means of communicating love and affection. This way you resolve the paradox.

Well you shouldnt feel shy about having sex with your women. If she wants it thats what you give her. Women are inteligent and they know what they want. We set out vibes for the men. Dont be shy....just fuck her up as long as she lieks it.

And by the way that makes you wise nryong your years just so you know. When you love it will be pure as opposed to many of your peers. One other thimg. Because you are not a man yet there is a child still there who is blind to the evil in the world. That's the part of you that feels selfish. It just means you have a heart. What you have to realize is that you are an animal and that makes you real.

maybe you're not ready for sex then.

Find a girl who will make the first move.

well maybe thats a sighn that ur not really gay like that

get her to start with tossin you off and then work your way up to finger her and so on