Is it normal to feel awkward after someone says this to me...
I'm a lesbian, but I'm not over the top about it - I have a stylish short hair cut, I dress in mens clothes (they fit) etc. There is a new woman in my department who sits next to me, we chat occassionally... one time when we were talking she said to me (she wasn't being rude) "You should have been born a boy.", Upon asking her why she thought that, she replied with "The way you speak, the way you dress, the way you carry yourself..." I wasn't necessarily weirded out by that until she continued on. "...You've got a very nice face. Sometimes I think to myself, God should have made you a boy. I would have flirted with you already." I'm in a very committed relationship and I know that she is married - Is it normal for me to feel weird about those comments. I found them unnecessary even though I know she was complimenting me.