Is it normal to feel attracted to my friends who are guys?

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I am a gal. Is it normal to feel attracted to my friends who are guys? Every time i get a guy as my friend , i feel attracted towards them and i feel, that guy should also be attracted towards me. Though i feel like this, i never saw any kind of attraction from them ,anytime. Sometimes i feel guilty that i am getting attracted to my friends.I dont have a boy friend. Does that mean am wanting a love in my life?

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  • ptolemy
    14 years ago

    Yeah, I mean you become friends with people you have things in common with or are interested in. Friendships all form out of some form of attraction. I've been attracted to each of my friends who are girls at one point or another, just how things work. I don't say anything and eventually it goes away. Once you start hanging out with someone and getting to know them, if they are cool, it's hard NOT to start liking them in some way. Even if you did have a boyfriend it might stay that way. That's often why guys don't want their girlfriends hanging around too many other guys.

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    Sounds like you're just searching, grasping at straws, if you will. You're probably not even genuinely attracted to them half the time, but trying to make yourself attracted to them to see if there's any possibility of something more than a friendship. You need a boyfriend :)

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  • Hkart33
    13 years ago

    Are** not ate.

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  • Hkart33
    13 years ago

    Maybe you are attracted to them because you know they are good guys and it's safe. Maybe you find it hard to be comfortable in dating someone. Maybe you lack confidence, so you ate attracted to the connection with the opposite sex that you find in a friendship.

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  • evybabe64
    14 years ago

    well in my elementary school every one was friends cause it was really small. so... i went out with alot of my friends. i know that is only elementary school but still
    and @water im sorry i would hate that!!!!

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  • Water
    14 years ago

    The truth is in my culture and tradition i am not supposed to have boy friend and its really frustrating and i dont know what to do.

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