Is it normal to feel alone and without friends?

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I feel like im a very energetic person! a person with a good personality, smart and pretty, is what i usually here from strangers. But after coming to my high school my ninth grade year, not knowing anyone... i feel like im alone. The "friends" i do have just judge me all the time, or make me feel like im the last choice when they decide to do something. In my school, i have a positive image because i do alot around the school and im very involved, even through the activties im involved in, i cant find a group of people that i would fit in with. I would like to say that i am not the stereotype in my school ( i hate to say that) ... in and middle school i used to be made fun of because i wasnt black enough. I just dont know if its my personality if im too overwhelming, cause with the whole friend thing its also really hard for me to find a boyfriends ( i have never had one )... i feel alone and that im usually there for my friends but when i need them they arent there or not listening... i need advice please.. i cant wait til college when i maybe will find people like me who i can fit in with, but in middle school i had the same problem and i thought that if i switched the high school that i was supposed to go to it would get better...but it didnt. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?

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  • lonelygirl2011
    12 years ago

    dont worry girl you're not alone,when I was in my high sch. time I used to be alone where I can find peace and do wht I want when am alone.

    I think maybe because we are much involved with the things happening around us.Cheer up and enjoy!! dont think so much.

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  • xxrichieexo
    13 years ago

    girl im glad i sawthis on here.i have a hard time making friends at school.how old are you?

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  • PiAnt
    14 years ago

    You do seem like you're very much involved with all the stuff that's going on around you.

    And, you do admit you might seem a bit overwhelming, to some, at times, whereas the people you are trying to befriend aren't?

    People don't really want to be friends with people who have forceful personalities.

    I'm sure you're a very lovely and considerate person who would make the best of friends, but they don't see that?

    Maybe you could tone it down a bit? In friend type situations? And let it all out when hard work is called for.

    There are times to be full on, and other times to reign it in a bit.

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  • Vyzr
    13 years ago

    WOW! THAT SOUNDS JUST LIKE ME! It sucks though. Its like youre the extra option for people or something.

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  • 0000Lz4
    14 years ago

    Try just making friends with people who are involved in the same activities. Then ask those ppl to hangout. chances are you have more in common. and id say ditch the "friends" those types of ppl arent friends.

    And I get that it sucks right now, but I think alot of what your going through is mostly just adolescence, sorry. We all go through it.

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