Is it normal to fear your sexuality

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I'm scared to have a girl friend and i'm scared to express my sexuality in any way.

I had always felt like this sense i had my first girlfriend at the age of 15.

I only have problems expressing my sexuality in a physical way,but i don't have problems taking about it.

If i where to have a girlfriend right now i would try to hide her to the world,and make sure no one would know that she was my girlfriend.

every relationship i've been in it has to be a secret.

this my second post i missed up on the old one,and got rude comment's.i hope this is better to understand

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

You'll never find peace the longer you choose to fear and run away from who you are. Take pride in who you are.

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VirgilManly

9 years ago

I, myself, am afraid to get too sexually excited as the completely erect size of my penis could frighten women, make other men feel inferior, attract lightning and get tangled up in electric power lines. It's a terrible thing.

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CountessDouche

9 years ago

I'm not understanding exactly why you feel the need to hide your sexuality...are you ashamed of sexuality in general, religious, do you find sex to be dirty? A little more direction would help with the advice, I'm sure.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  i fear that ima be criticize,like how i been all my life.people would say he stupid he had her and let her go what wrong with him he all fucked up in the head,yeah and by your own father also.i can only do something if im alone with the girl but even being alone is hard at times.i was called many names retarted,stupid,idiot,just horrible hateful words that i dont deserve at all.i hate my family hell thats not my family.they have ruin me and my self esteem,from a young age.
  
  when im in a social sexual situation i feel bad about it.cause ima be judge in many ways.and how society is they talk about sex and who they did and if it was good,i cant do that,and dont want that happening to me.and one time it did happen and i felt fear.
  
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  - Gspyder
    
    9 years ago
    
    I think I commented on the other post. You're overestimating how much thought people actually put towards others sex lives, or others lives in general. Really most girls have maybe one or two friends who they'll talk about sex with anyway.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      where do u live,maybe u right
      
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      - Gspyder
        
        9 years ago
        
        'Murica! (southern US)
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        im in the usa,and people here are open to there sex life,i hear it guys talk about girls and girls talk about guys.oh and i did't got your other post but ima check it out now,thanks
        
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clevelandashkenaziatheist

9 years ago

You're a kid. No one will judge you on this sort of thing. It's all in your head. After you just get out there and do this, you'll look back on this and laugh. It is not a big deal. Just protect yourself (physically) and remember that (nearly) everybody does it. Your parents certainly did (or do). Your partner will be looking forward to it and happy with it.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  i'm a 25yr male
  
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  - clevelandashkenaziatheist
    
    9 years ago
    
    My mistake on the age. Regardless, the comment still applies.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      is that so,im not a kid,im a man with problems and a man that had bad realationships in the past.and i have been critisize in the past b4.and besides i know no one well critisize me if they see me happy and have a girl friend.its my emotions that fear the critisizum.
      
      oh and very sorry for the bad grammer ima check it later
      
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      - LittleBee
        
        9 years ago
        
        You should try to see a therapist.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        yeah you right.thanks for the help
        
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Scharfschützer

9 years ago

I don't know dude, sounds pretty gay to me.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  i'm a man.and im not gay i love pussy.i just have social anxiety
  
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  - LittleBee
    
    9 years ago
    
    You're stating you have social anxiety. There's your answer.
    
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  - Smexi
    
    9 years ago
    
    Ohhh you dirty slut :)
    
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seakelp

9 years ago

I'm a bit confused here. Are you also a woman and you're worried about people thinking you're gay? Or is is that you're a guy and you're worried that people think of you as having a sex drive at all?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  i'm a male
  
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