Is it normal to fear your sexuality

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I'm scared to have a girl friend and i'm scared to express my sexuality in any way.

I had always felt like this sense i had my first girlfriend at the age of 15.

I only have problems expressing my sexuality in a physical way,but i don't have problems taking about it.

If i where to have a girlfriend right now i would try to hide her to the world,and make sure no one would know that she was my girlfriend.

every relationship i've been in it has to be a secret.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    jesus fucking christ, don't you think you could have taken 30 fucking seconds to proof read what you posted? How fucking lazy are you?
    I'm sorry this is so far off topic, but this post is totally illiterate bullshit.
    Respect us enough to at least spell simple words like ta(l)king and "pshsical" correctly if you'd like some reasonable input from us. And how about you capitalize one or two words that begin your sentences. please?
    Your post is totally disrespectful to every member on IIN.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Ok,sorry,is this better.can you understand it better.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        Thank you. Certainly a lot easier to read and understand.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          sorry,I sometimes get very lazy when it comes to writing/typing.

          can you answer the question that would make me happy.

          thanks.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      I agree with the old warrior sailor here now.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        9 years ago

        is this better to understand

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I'm sorry, I just can not relate to your question. I have always been very happy to show the world that some girl thought enough of me to walk beside me, holding my hand.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      but i can relate to your's,

      it makes sense to me,but still after what you said i still fear haveing been seen with a girl.

      i do fear a girlfriend cause of problems,girls have treated me badly and selfishly when truly i'm a nice guy.

      its like what i'm saying make no sense and really i dont understand why i feel this way i don't know if its low self esteem are anxiety.

      like i should be happy with a girl i'm not lonely i have someone there with me that i can talk to and relate to and love and care and have fun with and enjoy life with.but i don't understand why i feel this way when deep down i truly want a girlfriend.it mite just be my bad relationships with other's cause at time i just rather be lonely.this is what my mind telling me but my feelings are pulling me back.is this normal.please reply.

      truly i think it's best if i become a hermet are kill my self.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        Who ever promised you life would be easy or fair?
        The harder you work for something, the more value it has. Giving up is not very satisfying or rewarding.

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      • Gspyder
        9 years ago

        I've been there man. Some girls only thinks about their own feelings and will take advantage of a nice guy. You can't let them decide what you're worth or make you feel bad about yourself. Instead take it as a lesson, you have to be careful how close you really allow people to get at first, because some don't care if they hurt you. At the same time, you have to be confident enough not to let a nice girl slip by when she comes along.

        you can't give up though. don't let some selfish jerks convince you that you aren't good enough to be happy.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Light some incense.

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