Is it normal to fear your boyfriend leaving you when you fight?

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Well we're in a healthy but still very young relationship(alomst a year)...
After falling in love with him i've had a constant fear of losing him;luckily i don't fear him being taken away from me by someone else, but a fear of sudden death or that the loss of interest in me, will take him away or make him leave me, has come over me...
we have a few fights from time to time, and under these fights, especieally if he's angry at me for something i did, i i tend to feel really guilty,sad, and sorry... these feeling suddenly elvolves into the fear and anxiety for him leaving me, i get so afraid, and my mind only thinks negatively... i'm not worthy of him, i'm a bad girlfirend and such... i literally starts hating myself, and i cry and i cry, which makes me hate myself more, because i don't want to make him feel guilty...
but the fear makes me so afraid that i ahave i sit down and i tend to crumble myself together, pull my kness in and hold tight around them, then i start mumbling things, and i start shaking, is that normal?

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  • davesumba
    9 years ago

    Here's a tip, don't fight with your boyfriend over stupid, pointless, little, irrational girl shit. Or if the fighting comes about from something you did, then stop being a skanky whore seeking attention from men.
    Problem solved.

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  • perfectxsilence
    9 years ago

    Doesn't sound good. I think you need to work this out with your boyfriend. My fiancé and I have a completely "talk it out" approach to everything so we never harbor any negative feelings like this. It seems to me like you have anxiety issues at the moment and would really benefit from having a heart-to-heart with him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Doesn't sound very healthy to me.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    You're suffering either from low self esteem or you're not that secure about your relationship as you'd like to be. Have you ever told him your fears?

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