Is it normal to fear penetration even though i'm not a virgin

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I lost my virginity years ago but now whenever I have sex, especially if it's been awhile I always fear that initial penetration because it hurts. So I tense up and hesitate right before he enters & that doesn't make the situation better. Once it's completely in though I'm fine because it doesn't feel painful then. So is this normal? And what can I do to relax and not freak out?

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Based on 9 votes (7 yes)
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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Let him perform oral on you beforehand or let the foreplay go a bit longer. You need to get more comfortable before letting him penetrate you.

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  • cathy22
    12 years ago

    I agree with the other posters, more foreplay and try to relax :)

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Fingering works too.

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