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Like, I'm pretty sure I like girls. I date them and stuff, but sometimes when I see a hot guy, when I materbate at night I think about sucking him off and having sex with him. I want to know what it's like, but does this make me gay?
Nobody is "all the way" straight or "all the way" gay. It's all a matter of degrees, and no matter where you might fall on the spectrum, you're normal.
If you have a gay friend, you might want to talk to him about it. If you don't, there's always the internet. Don't get yourself caught up in anything that isn't safe, but if this is something that's really getting to you, it's worth having a few discussions about it.
I'll tell you what, though... I get turned on by, like, one chick in a zillion every once in a while. What I did was I located a chick who was bisexual and went for it. I kissed her, felt next to nothing, and that's how I figured out that I wasn't gay enough to actually enter into that kind of relationship. I can't quite explain it, but I had the same reaction to kissing a chick as I have to kissing a picture. There's just nothing there. I liked the chick just fine and she was pretty and everything, but I guess I'm just into the dudes.