Is it normal to fantasize about women you work with?

I fantasize about sleeping with women I work with. There are about 5-6 women I’d love to have sex with . Most are single but a few are married. I know from others sleeping with co workers usually complicates things in the work place if things go south . Should I act on this or just keep it what it is, a fantasy ?

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96% Normal
Based on 50 votes (48 yes)
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  • e51pegasi

    Fine to fantasize, in my experience never ever get romantically involved with anyone at work. The inevitable happens & it makes the working environment toxic.

    If you are looking for a relationship or even just some fun, work is seldom the place to find it.

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  • JustAHuman

    Are you Facebook friends with them? If not, add them on Facebook. Maybe you'll see pictures of some of them in bikinis.

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  • lordofopinions

    I've seen work relationships fall apart and the aftermath is not pretty. You have to see and perhaps interface with that person. I saw a relationship like this fall apart and one person was fired because their productivity bottomed out.

    I once was asked about an affair at work and what was my opinion. She was hitting on me, the look on her face told me that. I told her that work relationships were not a good idea and explained. I could tell she was disappointed but we remained good friends. No benefits. ;)

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  • Bazinga

    Bad idea, unless it's the Christmas party.

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  • Chuda

    Absolutely normal. Fantasising girls around you and masturbating is very common. Many guys masturbate fantasising their co-woker, friends wife, frnds sister, frnds gf and neighbors . But they will never confess. Don't think so much just fantasise girls and masturbate

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  • Faceless

    What are you, some kind of homo or something?

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  • lordofopinions

    Every guy does it. The one's that say they don't are lying! And I bet a lot of women have secret crushes on guys at work. I had one woman at work ask me to go out for a smoke. I do smoke but very little. The talk turned to affairs at work. I said I would never consider it because if the relationship went sour then you would have to see that person every day which would be rough on both. I then asked if she was offering me an affair. She said yes. But I turned it down for the reason above. She was sad but we remained really good friends.

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  • jaystrong

    96% of the peeps here says it's normal. So does that mean the other 4% are abnormal?

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  • feddy48

    I fantasize about my secretary. she is so hot, she has an ass like no other I have seen. she has pretty small breast but they are fine. she drives me crazy when she wears leggings...omg talk about accenting that beautiful butt...

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  • jaystrong

    It's normal to wonder what it would be like to be with them, to check them out (not stare and constantly look at them!) and of course fantasize.
    I ended up sleeping with a co-worker (many years back) and come to find out she told me a couple of the other ladies were talking about me. Wouldn't doubt they were pleasuring themselves too! lol

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  • janvithebest

    Yes I do the same

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  • Hornyguy12963

    How hot are they and how horny do they make you

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  • Checkmate_King

    Don't drag your pecker through the cash drawer.

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  • lonewolf1253

    I fantasize about every pretty girl I see. Anywhere. Leave the work chicks alone though. Too many hassles involved.

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  • aetsen555

    It is normal but please dont do it. Wont be good

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  • RoseIsabella

    I think it's kinda creepy.

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    • jaystrong

      So you look at guys and say to yourself "I wonder how smart that guy is!?!" NOT - "Wow, he's a good looking guy" and wonder what he might look like without a shirt or something?

      A typical work day is 8 hours. For some that's almost half their day and for many it's the larger % of human interaction and the people they see each week. I can't understand why anyone wouldn't think that someone there at their work doesn't either talk about them, think about them or even both. Not saying constantly, but from time to time or even once.

      Rose, you'd check my butt out if I bent over. I just know it! LOL

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      • jaystrong

        It's only creepy if they are not your type!

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        • RoseIsabella

          So what?

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          • jaystrong

            So what ... what?

            You don't think guys or even women (perhaps) look at you?

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            • RoseIsabella

              Well, for the most part I don't want them to unless I find them attractive... and yes, so what? I wasn't put on this earth to be oogled. I don't enjoy it when some asshole looks at me like I'm a piece of meat!

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