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I’ve had a long time fantasy about my wife having sex with one or more of our friends, she’s not sure about it but I think she’d like it. She’s very sexy and sexual…Is it normal?
We share each other a lot with others. We are both bi and swing so we go all ways and enjoy a healthy sex life.
I had a 3some with a couple once. He got off watching me take his girl in the butt. He later took my butt.
It's not that uncommon for a guy to fantasise about this. You really should try to sort out exactly why this pushes your buttons, and what you believe you'd get out of the experience.
Sex with multiple partners is also a fairly common fantasy for women, although cultural conditioning means that many of them are afraid to admit that, even to themselves.
It can work, but all the people involved must be very mature emotionally and the couple definitely have to have good communication skills, be on the same page and have agreed some very clear rules about what's acceptable and what isn't.
There's no shortage of stuff about the hot-wife lifestyle on the internet. A lot of it is total fantasy or semi-fantasy that glosses over the very real and very serious problems that can arise, but you and your wife should be able to find some good quality advice if you're _both_ genuinely interested.
A fairly low-risk first step would be for the two of you to start sharing fantasies about this when you have sex. Using things like blindfolds and toys as you talk through your fantasies could help you both explore what you really feel about this.