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My wife is 40, but looks 30 or younger. Tall, slender, leggy, brunette with perky b cup Tits. Her oldest son is 22. I fantasize about them fucking constantly. Am I too weird? Or do others have this fantasy?
My mom and I perform oral all the time. I let her suck my dick and I eat her ass and pussy, sometime I used to fuck her ass but we never went beyond that. I think its normal and tbh its not the only family member I've fucked.
Yeah, violating taboos is hot.
As well as violating the incest taboo, your fantasy also violates the rule that men don't allow their spouses to have sex with other men. So it's a double-whammy.
Your step-son is a good candidate for the shared-wife fantasy, because you can clearly visualize him, because he's around and you can easily think of scenarios, and because he's not really a threat to your marriage. He's not some incredibly hunky. sex-god, multi-millionaire who's going to steal your wife from you.
Quite a few guys get off on the idea of sharing their wife with another man and a lot of women get off on the idea of being with two guys. This has been proven with research.
What's less clear is how much incest goes on. Few people are willing to talk about it openly, and I'd question if even anonymous surveys can get a true picture of what goes on in people's heads. Even if someone does think about it, the taboo is so huge that they may refuse to acknowledge that, even to themselves.
Having the fantasy is not a problem for anyone, as long as you keep it in your head. Things would get a little shaky if you started to think about making it real. I wonder if you've picked up on any sort of sexual tension between your wife and step-son? Given what you've been thinking about, it might be difficult for you to be really objective about this, but it's not completely impossible that things might have happened between the two of them.
That last sentence is much food for thought. Now I'm running real occurrences threw my mind and performing analysis of their behavior towards each other to determine if there may be clues to back up your theory.
Like I said, try to make sure you're not seeing what you want to see. We all do that at times.
If you're heavily invested in this fantasy, you may be inclined to interpret things in a way that supports it.
Complicating things is the fact that they're mother and son, and some mothers and sons are very close, but never cross a sexual boundary. I have no idea what gauge you might use to try to determine the truth here, but I think it might be tricky.
A couple of fundamental questions:
First, how would you feel - in real life, not fantasy - if you found out they had indeed been sexually intimate? Would this make you feel jealous, a little ill, turned on, what? In other words, are you absolutely sure you want to know the truth?
Second, would you actually like for this fantasy to be made real? It's a cliché that fantasies made real sometimes turn out to be far more messy and complicated than they are in your head. If you do want to go this route, what rules and limits would you like to have in place? It's not a great idea to go into this sort of thing without being clear on what you really DON'T want to happen, exactly what you would find threatening, and so on.
If you did want to find out the truth - and just possibly open either Pandora's box or a box of amazing things - then maybe you could find some way to let your wife know that you don't find mother-son incest a disgusting idea, that you can understand why it might happen, that you think that what two adults get up to is really their business alone and so on.
Obviously, you'd need to approach this very carefully. You know your wife, so you have to have some idea about whether there's a chance she might react to this by saying your're a complete sicko for even thinking such things, that no good mother would do that, that it's parental abuse no matter the age of the son, or whatever.
Ideally, you wouldn't raise this out of the blue. Some news event or something you see when together with her should seem to bring the idea to your mind.
Taboo acts are hot..I had a woman I was dating, post-divorce, meet my hot older sister (who I've been messing around with for years), pick up on the sexual energy, and, on our way home after the gathering, say to me "So, have you ever..Fucked your sister? She's hot.I would have.." I told her we'd messed around "in the past", not saying the past was only a few weeks earlier.
We get back to my house, start messing around, and she said "I can't stop thinking about you and your sister..Getting me SO hot!". I thought, well, ok..Whatever works. It worked for me, too..
Incestuous fantasies couldn't be more normal or common but yours is a little more left field.