Is it normal to fantasize about cheating with the lawn guy?

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So my husband's in the military and been on deployment for about 3 months now. I hired this new guy to come mow our lawn twice a month since my husband's away. He is very cute, very young (7 years younger than me), and very nice. He has a wife and a baby boy. I'm not worried about cheating, because I don't want to deal with the repercussions and guilt associated with that. Plus I doubt he'd want that either, and I doubt he's attracted to me. He probably has desperate women throwing themselves at him all the time. However, I've been having sexual fantasies about him, which kind of make me feel a little guilty. I've never had the slightest desire for another man since meeting my husband 8 years ago. It's not just an "ok, he's cute, let's move on..." I've masterbated several times thinking about him. Is this normal?

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  • SpookyPancake
    6 years ago

    Absence of the beloved one makes the heart (and pussy) lonely.

    Normal. As long as you don't act on it, it will be fine. If you feel really guilty about having this type of fantasies, look up some porn. This way, you will throw the lawn guy's face out of your mind and you will have a better idea of what you like when your husband returns.

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  • Ilovemycat24
    6 years ago

    No he has not seen my sister naked. That would be weird and uncomfortable for everyone.

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  • Del
    6 years ago

    The question is, would you accept if your man masturbated thinking about another woman?

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    • Ilovemycat24
      6 years ago

      I think as long as he didn't physically act on it, I'd be fine with it. And as long as it wasn't someone who we were really close with and spent a lot of time with... like my sister or cousin or best friend... that would be weird.

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      • Del
        6 years ago

        I suggest that you try sexting with your husband to avoid all these things.

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        • Ilovemycat24
          6 years ago

          Ha! If only the military allowed service members to have personally owned devices, much less provided wi-fi. My only communication with him is via government monitored email and phone. He's definitely been having to have his "fun" in the port-o-potties... yuck! Honestly, I told him about it, because we're very open and honest. He is okay with it as long as I don't act on it, and wants to fire the guy as soon as he gets home. Lol. He's only letting me keep the guy, because the other two companies failed to show up when I booked them. But I still didn't know if this was normal to have that fantasy, and if I should be ashamed or feel guilty...

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