Is it normal to fantasize about being raped?

I've had this fantasy since I was like 12 years old and it seems so sick and twisted but it's a huge fantasy of mine and I think about it a lot..

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81% Normal
Based on 21 votes (17 yes)
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  • TweedRanger

    You can't rape the willing.

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  • Annapurna

    I also used to do when I was between 12 and 14, I was a bit sexually insecure, but I guess fancies like that are quite normal in adolescence.

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  • ReoKado

    In a way that could be kinky, so I honestly see nothing wrong with it, as long as it stays a fantasy of course. Don't get me wrong though, you have to be into some serious S&M to get turned on by that. Yet everyone has their preferences... :P

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  • Unimportant

    People fantasize about the weirdest things, no reason to worry.

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  • YouKnowWho

    No, not normal. How the fuck can this have more 'normal' votes?! What a world to live in...It's not normal to fantasize about being raped just like it's not normal to fantasize about being robbed, kidnapped, tortured or murdered. Sex isn't an excuse for everything, Jesus Christ.

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    • Barugel_Azulay

      From Wikipedia:

      Rape or ravishment is a common sexual fantasy among both men and women, either generically or as an ingredient in a particular sexual scenario. The fantasy may involve the fantasist as either the one being forced or coerced into sexual activity or as the perpetrator. Some studies have found that women tend to fantasize about being forced into sex more commonly than men. A 1974 study by Hariton and Singer found that being "overpowered or forced to surrender" was the second most frequent fantasy in their survey; a 1984 study by Knafo and Jaffe ranked being overpowered as their study's most common fantasy during intercourse; and a 1988 study by Pelletier and Herold found that over half of their female respondents had fantasies of forced sex. Other studies have found the theme, but with lower frequency and popularity. However, these female fantasies in no way imply that the subject desires to be forced into non-consensual sex in reality—the fantasies often contain romantic images where the woman imagines herself being seduced, and the male that she imagines is desirable. Most importantly, the woman remains in full control of her fantasy. The fantasies do not usually involve the woman getting hurt.

      Meaning: the fact that you condemn it doesn't make it any less normal.

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      • YouKnowWho

        Compare and contrast your definitions of 'normal' and 'common', if you will.

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