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I'm 24 and I have a fantasy of being treated like a little girl, by and older man. Ive not found anyone else that has this same fantasy, I've looked all over the net for forums or anything of that sort, am I alone? I want to explore this fantasy and fulfill it.
I have a fantasy where I treat ppl like you like a lil girl, we should get together :D
I have this fantasy too. Haha and it started when I was around 14 and my mom's boyfriend moved in with us...hmm...
I have even fantasized from the older man's perspective. My favorite time to do it is in the shower while "he" is "bathing" me.
I'm an older (than you) guy. May I treat you like a little girl? Sounds like an exciting fantasy to me!
first of all, are you a dude or a girl? if your a dude I think it's a bit odd...A women, might be a different story.
well if you are female and wanna be treated as a child of your own gender this is very normal if you are a male you are odd but not sick if you are a strait male you are sick.
If your a girl it's very normal. Ever since humans have existed older men with younger women has always been a common attraction/fantasy for both sexes. As long as no one is getting harmed (your both consenting adults) there's nothing wrong with it. In fact this is a pretty common fantasy, I have known multiple girls like that kind of role play. It goes into our roles: males as masculine protectors with commanding power and respect and a dominating nature. females as sensitive, beautiful, delicate, cherished, submissive. Needing to be taken care of. I think most women feel an attraction to this on some level but feminism and modern society repress it
I am a mature transsexual, very mature by some people's standards. Some time ago I began playing one of the virtual world role playing games. My role was that of a very young, toddler/child age, little girl. Since that time, and since fate robbed me of the chance to experience firsthand, I have given much interest and fantasy of being a small little girl. Not so much of a sexual aspect, but just in being subject to parental figures, a loving, nurturing parental figure mind you. Needless to say my actual childhood wasn't the best.
Depends on your age.I once knew a girl who was my friend (but not my girlfriend as some immature teens would like to believe) and I used to think about her all the time.We don't talk much now.
It is totally fine. I think people have to understand that the bedroom is a playground, a theatre. Wherever your mind wanders, whatever scenarios you concoct are fine. Go to whatever feels good for you. There is no pressure there to be "correct." Also, don't let people tell you that even though you are free to do it, there must be something wrong with you, you must be somehow sick, to want to do these things. You're not. Let your imagination run free. Let your feelings guide you. Don't let people shame you.
FetLife.
My name there is shushi-chan.
If you want somewhere to start, look up my name, look at the groups I'm in, my kinks & my fetishes & I think from there you'll feel confident enough to branch out & finely tune your searches to best fit what you're looking for.
What is normal? Normal refers to a lack of significant deviation from THE AVERAGE. The phrase "not normal" is erroneously applied in a negative sense (asserting that someone or some situation is improper, sick, etc.)
The Oxford English Dictionary defines "normal" as "conforming to a standard". Another possible definition is that "a normal" is someone who conforms to the predominant behavior in a society. This can be for any number of reasons such as simple imitative behavior, deliberate or inconsistent acceptance of society's standards, fear of humiliation or rejection, etc.
Just because it's not accepted by the majority of society, does not make it wrong.
I am 31, There was a 19 year old friend living with me for a while who loved to be treated younger, and it never went beyond that. She couldn't keep a job, and she was a high school drop out. Eventually I convinced her to take her GED and soon some college while she was living with me, and eventually she moved out. I could NEVER date anyone like that, or even have sex with them.
are you male or female? it sounds like you are male so based on that i would say no it is not normal according to societies standards but normal for you can be whatever you want it to be so have fun. i often fantasize about what its like to be a girl my age (not a little girl) but so do most guys, cmon dont lie, every guy thinks about it from time to time.
Odd, I've found ageplay material all over the web. I'd love to try all aspects of it. (From being the daddy to being the special lil' girl.)
If you've looked everywhere online, you may have been using the wrong search phrases.
In Japan what you described is called "Lolita" - named after after Nabakov's book about a sexually active 14 year old. Harajuku has a very distinct Lolita culture there where teens and adults dress as very young girls. There is also a minor goth subculture within the Japanese Lolita culture.
I'd suggest looking that up.
I have this on a serious level. My boyfriend and I play out many fantasies. Daddy daughter, master slave, serial killer and victim, its great. I cant seem to get off any other way. People like us usually come from troubled pasts. As long as these things dont get out of control, youre fine. I used to look for older men to talk to portaying myself as a little girl on the internet. Im only 17 now so... It was quite dangerous.
If you are a woman this is called age play or "daddy fetish" look it up and even if it's not "normal" it is quite common.
an ex of mines asked to be treated like that during sex but nit always, she was one kinky bitch, no with me tho, w/e makes her horny
To everyone who says it's normal for women but weird for men:
Take your damn double standards somewhere else.
Actually quite common, normal who knows. I do know that as an older male I've had chats with quite a few women with this fantasy. In real life it seems that younger girls are flirting with me more than when I was younger but perhaps that's my fantasy :)
Normal if male or female.
Male = Bear/cub fetish (maybe?)
Female = Types of sadomasochism.
That's crazy, I feel the same way. Was your dad there for you? If not then maybe that's why you feel this way. I'm sure you don't take it as far as I do though and wear girls sizes 10/12 and 14/16 clothes.
Normal. I'm the same. But always wondered if others thought that way too. I'm ur age but look very young an use it to my advantage all the time.
We should keep in touch. I have questions.. But no one to ask.
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In response to 'deepthought33': I fantasize about being a very young girl and getting treated like an innocent young girl by an older man, and sexual acts do often transpire in my 'little girl' fantasies.
All right. Ever since I posted above I have been curious for a clarification. Is the fantasy merely that you are a very young girl that gets treated like a young, innocent girl by an older man or do sexual acts exist between the two of you in your fantasy?
For me, manipulatively sexual acts do transpire in my 'little girl' fantasy so I kind of forgot that it could be more like the 'alpha female' fantasy some have where sex may not be included.
I was just curious what it was for you and others.
I'm a 20 y/o female, I fantasize about this too and I think it's normal and fun. Feel free to PM me or something if you wanna chat.
Yes, it's normal. If you want to look up this kind of fantasies, which are shared by others, look up "ageplay" or "edgeplay", which is considered as a subset of BDSM (because of the transfer of power). It's not an easy fantasy to have because of the whole pedophilia craze, but this has nothing to do with it. So feel confident that there's nothing wrong with you, explore your fantasies and have fun!
Look up adult babies, they are people who wear dresses and all those sort of sissy things and they sometimes have mommies or daddies who care for them and look after them. They also enjoy wearing and using diapers. As well as being treated as babies.
Just a little weird. Were you abused or abandoned as a child? I mean, that does have text book daddy issues all over it. If not, I mean...deep down a lot of young women like older men because they see them as father figures (those men are usually sugar daddies, but still...) and I suppose a lot of girls wish they could see themselves as the cuter, tinier versions of themselves again.
Yes, I have that fantasy too. I am a grown woman, but I love fantasizing about being young and spanked and taught and .... ok, I am going to stop now .... No you are not alone at all.
hahahaha yeah i have those kinds of things too. your definetly not alone.
There's a genre for this sort of thing in manga. so i guess its pretty widespread. its pretty weird .
Technically not "normal" but definitely not "unique." There are a lot of people (yes, some guys fantasize about being younger too) who share this fantasy. Different extremes have different labels and ways of being played out. The best way for you to network is probably to visit a site like fetlife dot com where you can find variety of discussion groups dedicated to this and many, many, other kinks.
I'd suggest looking up "Littles"
hey, some women like older guys. if that is what you are attracted to, go for it. it does feel good to be taken care of because then someone else gets to do the hard work for you. it should be easy for you to find a sugar daddy. the only thing is, when you get taken care of, that person sometimes tells you what to do, etc., and that might not be what you are looking for.
I think it's normal. I've actually seen this brought up on other websites so I'm surprised you had trouble finding validation of your fantasy. Anyway, fantasies are all different and personal this one doesn't sound strange. I like dating big guys, ones with muscles (big or small) and a healthy look, no scrawny guys for me. I think that comes from the fact that, I too don't mind being treated like a little girl. Big guys, maybe like older guys, make me feel protected, safe and adored. As a single woman I do awesome for myself and get a lot of compliments from people about how mature I am, but in a relationship, in intimacy, I like being more 'protected' and 'pampered'. Is that how it is for you?
I have a fantasy. It's called "be quiet and make me a sandwich."
that do it for you?
Its not weird, Its not a fantasy that could do any damage to you, some actually can, so i cant see anything wrong with it.