Is it normal to fantasize?

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See, I have this DRAMA and I have no idea what to do.. I've never had a boyfriend.. I am a little fat but I'm working hard on it.. I think I'm kinda attractive after all, but nobody looks at me!! So, I have this obsession.. I KEEP fantasazing about thing I'd love to happen in my life.. and I have no idea how to stop it! I wish I could have a life like everyone, to date and go out.. but even my relathionship with my friends is hard.. I think my fear of ending alone makes me fantasize like this, and my REAL life is trash, please.. help!

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  • allik_21
    13 years ago

    I do it to I guess to get away from my life

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Fantasizing is a great way to get a positive attitude toward life. Having a positive outlook will make things easier when you want to achieve a goal. So keep your options open! good luck!

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  • chrissa114
    13 years ago

    Don't worry, you'll get all those dreams you want one day. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing. It sounds like your a passionate person. That's a good thing :-)

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  • annm2361
    11 years ago

    Make the life u want its it ur own hands... Be all u want don't fantasise grab it...

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  • Peptox
    11 years ago

    Life is long, you'll find someone. Better yourself as a person mentally and physically in the mean time.

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  • annm2361
    11 years ago

    I do it all the time Christmas is the biggest time I do it. U sound like me ;)

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  • whatsfordinner62
    13 years ago

    I do it all the time, but mostly because im in middle school and most of the others are really immature except for a few two or three. I always tell myself it will get better later on in life

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  • deviantd
    13 years ago

    if you don't have goals you won't go anywhere. both literally and figuratively.
    make sure to take small steps to reach your goals and don't get discouraged. you may also want to look at this web site. toolToLife.com

    its made by a life coach and it's all about changing your life for the better. it may help

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