Is it normal to fantasise about having sex with someone you hate?

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So there's this guy at my college. We don't get on at all in fact i hate him, he pisses me off to the highest degree. I'm honestly not attracted to him and he acts like a jerk most of the time. However, I found that I've been having fantasies about having sex with him, n its to the point where its like every single day now. When i see him, i still hate him though i , i dont feel any different towards him. its sooo weird.:/

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    You may want to rethink why you hate him so much.

    Sometimes extreme hatred is a result of trying to resist your attraction to someone

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  • JustDave
    12 years ago

    There's a thin line between love & hate.

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  • Venchen
    12 years ago

    Hate and love are very similar. Both are very strong feelings toward a certain person, and it is easy to switch between them. The opposite happens often enough. When you are hurt by someone you love, you can easily come to hate him/her.

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  • RoyalKnight
    12 years ago

    This is very normal. A good example I can give you is that there are a lot of people out there who are into " Master and Slave " role-playing during sex. The person playing the part of the Master would demand and force the person playing the part of the Slave to perform sexual acts on them while they're getting belittled.

    Many men/women out there find the idea of getting treated badly and talked down to by a " superior " individual a tremendous sexual turn-on.

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  • green_boogers
    10 years ago

    Just a note that this is an example of the attraction phenomenon that men exploit. They act like total jerks with a sense of humor. They don't give a damn. They are the ones that get laid. Nice guys are scoffed at by almost all women.

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  • Francophile22
    11 years ago

    OK I go against the consensus, but honestly why would I sleep with someone I'd rather wish dead?? I mean?? How could you even go thru with it?

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    • ucipher8
      10 years ago

      Agreed.

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  • ellevioleta
    12 years ago

    I fucking hate Sidney Crosby. And I still wanna have sex with him. life is hard

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  • DarkAngel212
    12 years ago

    Hate is not the opposite of love. Indifference is. You should seriously think about why you have such strong feelings towards this man.

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  • tye123
    12 years ago

    woooooow u must be badly hurt

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  • Gelmurag
    12 years ago

    I hate my ex, but sometimes have fleeting thoughts back to some of the webcamming we used to do. I've been told its normal, so my best guess for you its normal. I agree with Angel though, why do you hate him so much?

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    May be a dominating thing?...

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  • AbbyJBoydstun2
    12 years ago

    Haha, sounds like me with this guy from my high school. I hated him with enough passion that passionate sex would be fun. Make sense?

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