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A boy at school used to be really mean to me and i hated him so i moved classes but since a year or so ive started to find him really attractive also he has stopped bullying me now. Is this normal ?
I blame Hollywood. Everyone who gets together in a film has to be seen to hate each other at first, but then they fall in love.
With the divorce rate as it is, real life is usually the polar opposite of Hollywood, with loving relationships turning to hate.
Perhaps if we didn't all follow the movie ideal and try getting together with someone who we hate, we wouldn't be surprised that we still hate them years later.
if he's not mean to you anymore, i say go for it. you never know what could happen.
Oh my gosh, totally normal. I had this happen with a few guys. They were just such dicks to me and I would end up liking them somewhat. However, they would end up liking me later as well. Weird. It didn't happen with every guy that was mean to me though.
seems to me like an IRL case of the Amy's Little Lamb Summer Camp Adventure syndrome :O