Is it normal to fall to quick

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I feel that every guy I start talking to I have feelings for wayyy to quickly and I always wind up getting hurt. Whenever I get the slightest vibe from a guy that he is into me I start thinking of relationships and dating and I feel like guys my age just think of sex and I always get hurt because I'll tell them how I feel and then they will distance themselves and also if I give in to sex I just become the booty call..idk how to manage my feelings and hold back on wanting relationships.

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  • manantiel25
    11 years ago

    Well men have quick sex with girls so they don't fall in love easy why do u think all they do is have a quick sex and don't take u places or spend actual time with you? Because they dont want to fall in love. There's 2 types of people, some fall in love easily, and some take about a month before they even want you to be there girlfriend. I've experienced both sides I went out with one guy and waited a week just to get to know him before ever having sex with him he was gone in three days because I didn't have sex with him. Those are the kinda men that just want sex nothing else. The men that wants a relationship treats you like a lady. There are also the married ones or the guy that gets into a fight with his girlfriend and always comes over and gives you the good sex lol because he's taking it out on the gf or wife those are the ones you don't want to mess with because there confused. So I suggest you give it some time b4 getting into a relationship think about a long time commitment like religion, does he do drugs, does he show signs of a player, is he lazy does he job hop alot, does he do the things he says he going to do or is it just words.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    I am exactly the same way, to the extreme! Not sure how I got this way but I feel your pain!

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    yeah, you gotta get a hold of yourself and try to be more cynical and pragmatic. Im sorta the same way and if you do stop the, your gonna drive yourself insane

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  • FocoUS
    11 years ago

    I had a friend with the same problem except it wasn't just relationships, she made poor decisions about a lot of things. She had a serious problem though. It ended up that her poor decisions were a side effect of a medication she was taking.

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