Is it normal to fall out of love ?

I had this boyfriend once that I liked . we stayed together for about 2 and a half years . I stayed with him for awhile . I picked a boy I thought was a reasonable male to be with he was big he was tall , he was cute, and he was loyal and I thought he would never leave me and stay by me forever I knew he could never hurt me . He was thin but had a broad body however after 2 in a half years I don’t know It was getting kind of stale and one day when he kissed me i just did not feel anything any more . I just fealt like I did not want to be touched anymore I kind of thought it was because we had a 2 year difference and maybe I grew out of it I do not know to this day , But I still loved him he was my best friend in the world . Is this weird or am I just a bad person ? I still think about how it ended and it was horrible I still regret it to this day but there was a lot of other things going on at the time other than that . Than during my junior year my school messed up and put me back in soft more classes like so many others whos classes they had ruined and I hated this . I had no friend that year and I could not make friends with anyone in my class and truthfully at that piont I just wanted friends my age I hated being stuck with kids younger than me .

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Based on 31 votes (27 yes)
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  • Been there,done that,big deal.Don't worry about the shit.

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  • Mason334

    Listen there are good boys out there but it's rare for them to be cute truste me I'm a boy I'm nice basically everyone who knowes me well my gf was my best friend she fell in love with me I admit it I loved her but never telled her SHE KISSED ME and wont talk to me because she thinks I hate her I love her she thinks I'm trying to make her fell better so she won't talk to me I love her she loves me it's confusing but I wish I told her earlyer so know I'm stuck with a gf that won't talk to me well tekinly a gf since I love her and she loves me

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  • Mmmpfh

    Its a common problem. But its not necessarily the end of a relationship, it can be worked out. Its a tough one that catches out a lot of people though.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Normal. A person's feelings can change for someone over time. I also agree with the user GoofyFruityFaggot. You could have sued them. Even if they didn't mean to do it due the mainframe crashing, they are still responsible.

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    • Allistalla

      well I do not think a minor can sue a school all alone and everytime the school screwed something up they tell some bull krap to justify there actions and rufused to fix it so even If I went to the court I had no back up and my parents could not do anything either . My parents siad well they wont listen to us I guess you have to deal with it till the year is up all you can do .

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  • FruityGoofyFaggot

    Falling out of love and any other emotions you have are what makes you human. Dont worry about it.

    Wait...Did they really deliberately hold back students a grade? How did you not sue their asses?!

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    • Allistalla

      Yes they did they held alot of students back that did not belong back that already passed the classes . The school mainframe crashed so when school started they had to start over completly from scratch . Everyday for the first month of school every morning and every lunch there was about 50 kids a mob infront of the office trying to fix there classes and after a certien amount of time the kids who were still waiting outside were sent to class I was sadly one of those kids who never got there on time and after the first 3 months they siad " Anyone who was not able to change your classes to bad ". This was infuriating and this mainly happend becuase the women signing me up for classes the year before would not listen when I told her I was going to be a junior and siad NO NO NO these are the right classes trust me . However than the system crashed and I could not get it changed anyhow and they would not see me . I could not sue they siad it was not a big deal and they would just give me credit for being a junior even though I never had a real junior year . You can not imagine how frustrating it is retaking the same class you passed and having to be with children a year younger than you everyday . This fact Frustrated me also since it had the added consiquence of no one wanting to talk to me becuase they knew I was older than them and I was so diffrent . At the time I begged my parents to switch me schools or do something about it but the school would not listen to them either and they did not have the money to send me TO A GOOD SCHOOL . My senior year was a bit better as I was put in auctual senior classes so I did not have to stress as much about not being able to be around anyone my age . I know its a stupid thing to want to have classes with children your age I did not mind being around younger children but for every single class. They did this to everyone I always hated that school and its accountability . My parents insisted it was a good school It was not I got a very poor education at that school even though I did like most of the teachers and my freinds but the staff was just imcompatant .

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