Is it normal to fall in love with your friend

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im a guy and my friend a.s. is in like half my classes. he is muscular, runs on the track team, has golden blond hair, and deep blue eyes that could melt your soul. he has to be the cutest boy in the world. hes super nice and has an amazing personality. i swear ive fallen in love. im kinda a writer and have an entire book just about him. its just im too frightened to tell him because i dont know how hell react. any advice and is this normal.

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  • tjbarton
    11 years ago

    I'm the same I love my best mate and I haven't told him cos I don't know how he will react try telling him private I'm a male btw

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      i want to tell him but im too nervous to do so what did you do to tell him

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  • sandbar93
    11 years ago

    If he is a friend then you know him. You also love him. I'm not talking about being in love with him. But if you love him as a brother and you know his struggles and if you find him attractive, then yes, you can fall in love with him. This happens in friendships more with woman I believe, but I'm not sure. I know I have fallen in love with my friends (female). Normal.

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  • AwkwardlyMe
    11 years ago

    I can't say for sure cause i don't know the both of you personally, but there are some things to consider like the following:

    Is he gay/bi/straight?
    If you are gay/bi does he know this?
    If he straight is he homophobic?
    some guys don't mind having a gay friend, but it is generally a different story when said gay friend is crushing on them. when you've answered these questions to yourself, you should think on the pros and cons. for example: if he doesn't accept your feeling will he be disgusted? standoffish? will it be awkward?

    i think you should wait confessions out until you know, bring it subtly up in convo, ask him how he would react to a guy being attracted to him, or take him out to a gay bar with a group of friend or something...

    Hope this was useful but it's my opinion.
    (^_^)v

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    Oh-my-god, he sounds so hot!

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    • myboyfriendsbitch
      11 years ago

      We don't know how he will react either.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

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