Is it normal to fall in love with my best friend, who has a grilfriend

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I've studied with this guy since we were 5. When we turned 16, we became really closed, and as he was my bestfriend, I helped to fix him with a girl he had a crush on. I had only friend feelings for him, and everything was fine, until I started to notice that I was thinking to much about him. I step way, and now, 2 years later, we are no longer best friends, he is still dating that girl and I'm completly in love with him. I always thought I would have to forget about him, but last month, i went to his house and he kissed me! It was really beautifull and perfect, but now things are really weird between us because of his girl and this stuff. I really don't know what to do, because I know i really love him, and feel that he has some feelings for me, but i can't do nothing because he has a girlfriend and moved away to nyc. Am I really unnormal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    -Sigh- The amount of girls that have no attraction to a guy until he is with another girl is too damn high!

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  • Aeon
    9 years ago

    It is a messed up situation indeed. Normal though.
    Why don't you talk to him. It's a choice that should be taken by both of you after all.

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  • EccentricWeird
    9 years ago

    It sucks that he already has a grillfriend... it's tough to horn in on a barbecue relationship.

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  • can'tstoplovin'her
    9 years ago

    asdfghjkjhgfd omg i'm in love with u n ur friend lol
    u r super cute together ,, thnx for tellin' me i just have an obsession about gay guys ^^

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  • can'tstoplovin'her
    9 years ago

    AWWWW how cute~ ,,i wanna meet his gf so i can throw her away from u two ,, can u plz tell me about the kiss . how was it and how did it happened??

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    • Jadethatsme
      9 years ago

      Hahaha thanks for the cute part! Well, we weren't talking for a while, and when he called me to "watch a movie" at his place i thought he was trying to resume the friendship. So i went, we were watching the movie, and it was like, super akward, than sudently he kissed me! We started making out for a few hours, it was perfect, we were on fire, but it ended, unfortunatly, bc i had to leave. That's it! And after that we could never talk normaly again...

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