Is it normal to fall in love with my best friend?

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I'm slowly falling in low with my bestfriend, but I don't want to. I know he doesn't feel the same way, but I think he's starting to catch on. I've considered telling him the truth but, I wouldn't want to lose our friendship over some dumb crush. I just don't know what to do.. I need help. I really do love this guy. It'd be such a waste to watch him walk away... iin?

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Based on 78 votes (74 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You're so boringly normal that I didn't even need to read the description, just the title to know you're a typical, average person.

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    • jellyfisher
      11 years ago

      Rude much?

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        No, just truthful.

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      • jellyfisher
        11 years ago

        I fell in love with my best friend and ninety years later we're still together.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Your true "love" should also be your best friend in life, otherwise you will just get tired of them and need space eventually.

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  • atasha101
    11 years ago

    Lucky I'm in love with my bestfriend.

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  • Andrew256
    11 years ago

    It's very normal to feel this way but if you know he doesn't feel the same way, you should let it be. It sucks, I know.

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  • squirtle
    11 years ago

    how did this get past the mods? -____-

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    • iEatZombies_
      11 years ago

      I know...

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    Very Normal.

    This is asked about twice a week.

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    If you're truly convinced they don't love you, it'll save you a lot of heartache if you don't 'hope anyway' and tell them.
    Of course, that could be in your head. If that's the case, you should let him know that you have feelings, but I wouldn't outright throw my whole heart on the table in hopes that it won't be destroyed.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Very normal, and when love is returned by a great friend, these relationships become so much more!

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