Is it normal to fall in love with each other after only a few days?

We have only seen each other a few times but we talk on the phone for hours. We seem to have simultaneously fallen in love with each other and aren't afraid to say it. We haven't had sex and there has been next to no mention of it. Does love at first sight exist?

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Based on 49 votes (33 yes)
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  • pala

    Yes, I fell in love with my curvy, millionairess, sex-mad girlfriend almost instantly. Something I just can't put my finger on. Except I'm not allowed to call her my girlfriend any more. Or go within 100 yards of her.

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  • Ms.Caffinated

    It's infatuation. Plain and simple. After the initial rose colored glasses wear off and you still just wanna be around this person cuz you enjoy it, i think thats when love can actually start. :) give it time before you start imagining a wedding lol

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  • kellstar79

    I believe in it and it's totally possible that you are in love with eachother however because you've only seen eachother a few times you may find the longer you spend time together the more annoying little quirks will start to show

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  • peterrabbyt3

    Sucking them off is a good yardstick for measuring love.

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  • thegruffalo

    I don't believe in love at first sight. You can fall in love with the person you're imagining they're like I guess.

    You don't know them yet so you just have strong feelings I'd say. I think you fall in love when you know them inside out. - emotionally and physically. You don't know all their little quirks and things they do yet.

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  • qwerty_me

    i dont really know if you are a boy or a girl but i wrote comment from my point of wiew, coz im a lady

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  • qwerty_me

    i met my husband twice before our wedding and he is love of life. dont have sex he may use you if he loves you let him propose to you

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  • BlueBarracuda

    Well, no one's really in love after a few days, despite all the teenage girls that claims it happens, and ironically enough break up after a week, but right now, it seems to be just a mutual crush. Don't start throwing the L word around until you are 110% sure you mean it. You never know, the person could be the complete opposite of what you currently think of them.

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    • fsinatraaa666

      I'm not a teenager anymore and I've had my fair share of the girls who fall instantly in love but this is just something different.. I don't exactly understand it but I'm not planning to do anything about it. I just don't understand this kind of feeling. Ya know? She knows I love her and she loves me.. I know I shouldn't have said anything but it was like a flood I couldn't hold in. I had to say it.

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      • BlueBarracuda

        I'm not saying you are. I'm using that as an example.

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  • Shackleford96

    It could be. Only time will tell though.

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  • Corleone

    You could have a crush on her, but true love? I doubt it.

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  • lc1988

    I don't know if this counts. So, I met this guy, hung out a few times, I thought he was going to break my heart so I ignored him for 2 years. He would still text me through this time but eh. Then, one day I was visiting my parents house and as I was leaving to go home, he text me. I thought "why the hell not?" So, I went over and after talking for hours I left thinking "Yup, that's the guy I'm in love with." Over two years and we're still in love.

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  • fsinatraaa666

    I've found it hard to believe it and I'm sure it's not just lust.. I have tried to find something wrong with him and I can't find it. I can't find anything wrong with this relationship. But like you said, perhaps little quirks will begin to annoy me.. I hope not though

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  • ThatKidTotallyRocks

    I do believe that some people are so right for each other that they do fall in love quickly.

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