Is it normal to fall in love with a shizophrenic bipolar?

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I was 15 he was 19. I was naive, and he was a playa. After i found out he was cheating on me.. i couldnt believe it. I was angry and somehow still loved him. I left to a military school for five months.. when i got out.. i immediately contacted him. Long story short we got back together and he cheated on me again.. 4 times that i know of. Still I cared for him.. and yeah i know its totally stupid. His parents kicked him out of the house.. i convinced my aunty to let him stay with us.. and i got pregnant a few months after i turned 18. I wish i could go back in time and tell myself how stupid i am. We fight all the time because hes so crazy and gets mad over something stupid. When he's mad he can't communicate effectively. He doesn't know how to behave with others it makes everything so awkward. I hate going out with him in public or being with him in front of my friends or family because he is so embarrassing. I never really noticed this before because we'd never do anything serious. Hes really good at making jokes and making me laugh all the time. But when it comes down to serious things or like even simple tasks he just suckes because he is really stupid. He has ZERO common sense. I yell at him all the time and sometimes I would hit him if he's in his "angry idiot mode." most of our fights will be him yelling random absurd shit... and me saying "what does that have to do with anything?! you never respond to what i say" idk. its just crazy.. when we are not fighting we just crack jokes at eachother. IDK he pays our rent, drives me to college but i think he's driving me crazy. I've lost all my friends because of him. Everyone thinks im weird for being with him.. and i feel like im always being judged when im with him so i like to roll my eyes and call him stupid when he acts weird in public. IDK what should i do?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    A "shizophrenic bipolar" - sure.

    A man who cheats on you whenever you take him back... ?

    In all honesty, if he's still cheating on you dump him. It doesn't matter what his mental condition is, it does not excuse his behavior.

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  • Nolan3200
    12 years ago

    To quote joey from friends "you got pregnant for funny?!"

    Sorry. I apologise. That doesn't help nor is it very appropriate to make jokes about your troubles. It just fit so well was all...

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    • Tehboss
      12 years ago

      WIN =D thank you!!

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  • SafireRayne
    12 years ago

    Please stop verbally and physically abusing him.

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  • gloomydust
    12 years ago

    He's not doing anything wrong , I think you should stop crying (Y) :) Stop being so paranoid, learn how to communicate with him, tell him you want some improvements , and try to see his point of view , remember that you're not the only person in the room with emotions and feelings. You're just not as caring as some people. It's all about changing your mindset to a better one :)

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago

    If you start out in an unhealthy relationship, and allow it to continue, you are giving your partner permission to continue to behave the way they do. Now, you are pregnant and about to bring an "innocent" life into the world. You need to be stable by the time your child is born. If that means leaving your psychotic boyfriend, then so be it. He is NOT going to change. You have to make a decent life for your child and obviously you can't count on someone who has such severe mental health issues. If, perchance, he were to start medication and therapy, you may be able to have a relationship with him, but not for a long time. He needs to learn new skills to deal with his mental health problems. The best thing you can do right now, is to concentrate on your child and get into a healthy living situation. Pronto!

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  • bubber
    12 years ago

    That relationship is extremely unhealthy. Once you find someone new you'll learn to get over him.

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  • norm
    12 years ago

    You know how he is, yet you stay in this relationship.

    You know it won't get better, but you stay.

    If you stay, you deserve everything you get.

    It will probably get much worse. Not only will he ruin your life, but will also ruin your child's life as well.

    I hope you enjoy it.

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