Is it normal to fall in love with a person at work?

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The thing is I am not really sure if I am doing the right thing :( I am in love with this guy who works at my dad's office. I got close to him when I went for this part time job there. He is a wonderful guy but he is not that educated, he's just a high school graduate and also he is from a financially low background :( I truly love him.

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Based on 35 votes (31 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    This is a recipe for disaster; you already have misgivings because of his education and "financially low background" and if things should go wrong between you two, then dad will probably fire him.
    Simple question, really; Is satisfying your lust worth ruining his life?

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    • terrace95
      9 years ago

      No it's not but he really wants to be with me and he dsnt care abt losing his job :(

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    • green_boogers
      9 years ago

      I'm afraid the gypsy nailed it. If the kid wants to just be a fuck buddy, you may be OK.

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  • shootpucks66
    9 years ago

    WTF does money have to do with anything. I was bankrupt when my GF met me and she excepted me for who I was,,, not what she wanted me to be. Give it a chance

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    • terrace95
      9 years ago

      Ohhh money dsnt matter to me but it matters to my parents :( So i dnt know what to do :'(

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Maybe you're just infatuated?

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    • terrace95
      9 years ago

      I dnt think so 'coz i hav been in love wid him fr a year nw :/

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    9 years ago

    So you supposedly want him, but you're already hung up about his education and financial background?
    Gosh, and I thought *I* was superficial...

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    • terrace95
      9 years ago

      It's not me!
      I am all cool about his background but not my family x(

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        9 years ago

        Value your family's opinion. The only advice I can give you in regards to that is that if he proves to be a worthy partner, throw their opinion out the door.

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  • Holzman_67
    9 years ago

    don't screw the crew

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    • terrace95
      9 years ago

      I dnt want to :P

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  • CoraCook
    9 years ago

    Does he love you too?

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    • terrace95
      9 years ago

      Yes very seriously.................like maybe more than me.

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    this sounds like every movie in history.

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago

    Yep. I've loved a lot of people...

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    What are you Indian!?

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    • terrace95
      9 years ago

      Yeah :P

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      • handsignals
        9 years ago

        So you are Indian, those Bollywood movies are shit! But your food is great :)

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    • EccentricWeird
      9 years ago

      What sort of Indian?

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      • handsignals
        9 years ago

        The curry type, not the corn type.

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        • EccentricWeird
          9 years ago

          I've had curry corn.

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          • handsignals
            9 years ago

            I have reservations about eating curry corn.

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            • thegypsysailor
              9 years ago

              Do I need to make reservations to eat curry corn? Pass along the number, please.

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            • EccentricWeird
              9 years ago

              Isn't it nice when people don't jump on you for saying racist things.

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