Is it normal to fall in love with a married woman?

Ok so i work with this girl. Shes 3 years older than me and shes married. Weve become good friends over the last year and ive fallen deeply in love with her. So much so that it hurts to know ill never have her. And i cant even look at another girl that way. I love her so much and id do anything for her. Id even die for her. Shes all i think about.

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  • Faceless

    Challenge her husband to a duel at high noon right on main street. Or better yet draw swords and fight for this womans love. Or just cry and write more poetry about it, wuss.

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    • pixie_dust

      gosh, what a nice way to mend someone's bleeding heart!

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  • JayX5

    Im used to people not understanding. But yea id rather have her as a friend than not at all. But i write i songs and i have to say even though i cant have her, she and my feelings for her have been my greatest inspiration. My best work. But idk if i can move on even if i let go

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  • pixie_dust

    you're probably going to have to settle for just having her as a friend. just be there for her as a friend, w/o anticipation that she will leave her husband. life sucks sometimes, sorry man.

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  • JayX5

    I dont plan on it ruining our friendship but i cant just let go or move on. I feel that strongly about her.

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  • LOUi_CUDi

    i feel sorry for u. hopefully u can fall for another girl but i guess its hard cause u see her everyday at work.

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  • psm45

    Dont let that stop you from remaining freins with her

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  • Just because she's married, it doesn't mean you can't fall in love with her. But she's taken, you have to respect that and move on. Unless she feels the same way and you're planning on making her divorce with her husband. But I wouldn't suggest doing that.

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  • mumbum

    Faceless!! Don't be so rude!

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