Is it normal to fall in love fast?

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I have been hanging out with this guy for a lil while now and texting each other and talking when were not together, And last night we had sex for the first time. He hasn't said anything about boyfriend and girlfriend status' or anything but he sure does act like it. But anyways, I've never fell fast for any guy I've ever dated, other then my daughters father. And I'm super picky when it come to dating guys. But with him its all starting so fast!! Its kinda scaring me cause I'm scared to get my heart broken. But I'm just wondering if its normal to fast so fast with some people when normally I don't. I just really don't want to get hurt.

Thanks in advanced!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You have a little daughter and your first concern should really be for her please don't forget that.

    You don't want her to get used to a temporary guy who's just getting laid or decides to split for whatever reason. Things like that might traumatize her and give her a complex. The more you do that the worse impact it may be on her.

    Next I'll say yes, it's normal for people to fall in love really fast *sometimes*.

    I'm a guy and girls not only have sex with me super fast (1st date) but they also get emotionally bound to me quickly most of the time. Usually in under 2 dates we both decide we want to commit to each other and give it an honest try. Quite often girls have said to me, "WOW YOU'RE SUPER FAST! :) " Meaning from the moment we met somehow we're both now spellbound with each other super quickly and they love it. It's kind of like all of sudden they realize I'm the guy they're supposed to be with. Sometimes they say I'm their soulmate which is a super compliment :)

    I have to admit I'm an emotional guy and I also get emotionally bound to them after we have sex. I tend not to have sex with any girl I don't honestly feel I can have a great long lasting relationship with. I'm very intelligent and mostly a good judge of character and of course I'm very attracted to these girls. I think just doing the FWB thing doesn't work nor does casually dating multiple people. If I really like a girl then I want to try to make a life with her and I certainly don't want any other guy fucking her. She feels the same about me.

    And yes it's very scary for guys like me who aren't dogs just getting laid.
    My biggest fear is that the girl would cheat on me and break my heart. My next biggest fear is that
    I'd of lost years of my life being faithful not dating other hot girls which could be better mates to me while the girl was a cheating dog. People never get back time.

    Right now the whole falling for a girl thing is kinda happening to me and I'm very annoyed about it. It's like I can feel her pulling on my heartstrings when I'm trying to work; I find myself thinking about her and imagining we're together and hooking up having fun.

    My life isn't going exactly to plan right now so I'm not sure if I'm going to date her or not. Time will tell.

    There's nothing more precious than one's love and trust and risking it on someone is probably the scariest and biggest risk you'll ever take.

    But if you don't take it then why are you alive?

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Yes I fell in love with my bf after 1 month

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  • zombie_queen_86
    13 years ago

    I so know how you feel, but you have to remember that when you start dating someone you basically know what your getting yourself into. There might be a possibility that things work. out or that they dont. Either way you know that you might've fuked over, so you suggest that you either just put yourself out there or you leave him alone. You can also ask him instead of waiting trust me communication is the best way

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