Is it normal to fall for your first person a second time?

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I'm sure you've all heard of the saying, "If you fall in love with two people than pick the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn't of fallen for the second one." Well, I did that. I told the first person, "I need space for a while." So that's what we did, we took a lot of steps back. My relationship with the second person was going great. Great enough that it made me think, "I think I could try to be friends with the first person again." I messaged him, and we started talking again. Now, the old feelings I used to have are back. He told me that he still loves me. It doesn't add up to me. If I already let him go than why am I having this problem? And would this mean that he's my new second person? Help

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    I saw this amazing quote the other day. "How did we stay together for 65 years? Because we grew up in a time when if something was broken, we'd fix it instead of throwing it away"

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      12 years ago

      I saw that posted on a picture on my Facebook the other day.

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      • ccjigsaw
        12 years ago

        That's tots where I saw it!! xD But still, I thought it was very insightful and amazing

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  • MangoTango
    9 years ago

    You're being a choosy tease. I like this. Creates tension, marvelous confusing tension. Drama!

    You can't choose? Which one is hotter? Which one are you more comfy with? Which one do you mesh with better? Ask those questions.

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  • solidman
    12 years ago

    yeah thats super harsh because, than your just being selfish and using both of them for your own happinese i personly think you should go with the second guy, and leave the first guy alone because, my story is exgacly like the first guy i got dumb by a girl i knew my whole life by some guy who she just know for a few months. its called playing with peoples feelings and believe me it hurts really bad.

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  • myownopinions
    12 years ago

    This might sound kinda harsh, but if it ever ends with the 2nd guy, you can now go back to the 1st one. Maybe you should try being friends with both and seeing which one you really "love".

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  • Frosties
    12 years ago

    That happened to me. Time makes you forget the bad things about a relationship. I went back. If morals are to be believed, it should have ended horribly. But we were pretty happy for three years. If anything, I loved her more in those three years than the first time around. It still ended, though.

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