Is it normal to fall for your 23 year old teacher if you're 17?

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i'm 17, soon 18. i'm totally attracted to this awesome person I've known for a while. he's my teacher and he is 23.we talk , like, every single day. he texts me whenever he has some free time. we talk every night. he does say that he likes me but I've always taken it as a joke. but, i guess, now this joke is something that i would wanna turn into reality.he's 5 years older to me.
is it normal?

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Based on 56 votes (47 yes)
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  • ThousandPoundsOfGanja
    10 years ago

    Don't ruin the dude's life lol, wait till you get out of high school.

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  • CheyChey
    10 years ago

    Reminds me of Aria and Ezra on pretty little liars... anyway I would not do anything if I were you even if you turn 18, I think the best would be to pursue something with him when he is no longer your teacher.

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    • lightanddarkness
      10 years ago

      I was thinking about them too.

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  • Jellibean7
    10 years ago

    The age gap is ok, but as he's your teacher its likely to be in reality an unbalanced situation: He's in a position of authority and he is bound by a code of ethics that says he may not enter into any kind of relationship with you whilst he is teaching you.
    I wonder if when you leave school/college...and move onto other things like work/uni...if you or he would still be interested?
    Does he only like girls that are in school? Do you like older guys..?
    If it is the real thing then I guess both of you would think it sensible not to ruin his career just for a few months/year.

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  • Justsomejerk
    10 years ago

    He is treading a dangerous path.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    People fall for people all the time there is no right or wrong way to go about this it just happens.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    If you like him and he's your teacher, no good can come from a relationship with him. Do you like him enough to get him fired and possibly banned from teaching?
    Shame on you.

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  • StarTeddy
    10 years ago

    If you really want to be with him you should wait until after you graduate, to avoid scandal.

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  • lightanddarkness
    10 years ago

    It's normal. But it would be better for both if you wait until he's no longer your teacher. A relationship of this kind can be dangerous.

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans
    10 years ago

    For a while i thought the TeacherxxxYoung student girl was a fabrication of TV shows,movies,mangas and animes.Turns out I either live in my own world or the other iin users have too much free time on their hands to troll.

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