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I think I love a girl who is in a relationship! She claims she would't hesitate choosing me if she wasn't! Is it normal that I can not deal with such situation?!
She says she would choose you if she wasn't in a relationship? That makes you her second choice. If she really liked you, she would dump him for you.
If you were honest and just, you wouldn't meddle in someone else's relationship. As a great and wise man once said, "Never rub another man's rhubarb!"
I ain't messing with her, nor push her into anything.. I jus shared my thoughts with Ya!!
Don't mess with a girl in a relationship...it's trouble man...
Plus..have some dignity..be a man. Find another woman.
I heard the exact same thing from this girl that I USED TO like. Don't believe her; run away while you can.
The thing is she was in that relationhip already when I met her for the first time. We started to meet as friends. But with time we started to have thoughts on how it would be if she was single. And we could be together whenever we want to. There's an unknown magic between us, but can we trust it? Enough to give up a solid relationship she's kinda aiiight with?
I never want her to give up her relationship because of me. And immediatelly start one with me.. I want it to happen naturally.
It's a vicious cycle.. And what a surprise, her boyfriend hates me!! But can do jack, because she likes me.
Normally I wouldn't even get into such thing, but I feel like she's the one worth my side, other girls seem pretty odd to me in comparsion, but is it wise to sit and wait what happens?
Currently she's happy in the relationship she has, not ready to give it up for a boy from around the way.. Things don't happen like that.. But still is curious about that special something that is between us, that came all of a sudden into our lifes. And bothers our minds.. I'd love her to tell me that she dumped him, but I ain't gonna force it by any action. All I can do is wait and enjoy every moment we are together.
We don't touch, kiss or have sex, not that You think, we just have this state of mind!!
Pardon my English, it's not my 1st language!!
I do this all the time. Hot women normally have a guy or they are married. Its fine ... you just need to be on your game. Most guys in a long term relationship let this slip. Thats when i move in bang their girl and move on. You need to just get her alone have some drinks and lay on the charm.